We often cling to the illusion of control, believing we can dictate the outcomes of our experiences and relationships. However, as I reflect tonight—something that has become a recurring theme for me—it's clear that we truly have no control over the outcomes of any person, place, or thing. We can set our intentions with all our hearts, but once those intentions are voiced, it becomes essential to let them go and allow the natural course of events to unfold. This notion can be particularly challenging. Many of us harbor strong preferences for how we want things to be in order to feel happy, or conversely, how we wish to avoid situations that might lead to unhappiness. Yet, regardless of our desires, the fundamental truth remains: we do not control outcomes. When we articulate our intentions, it's important to direct our will toward them, while also recognizing that the Universe, God—or Love, as I prefer to refer to it—will ultimately determine the path forward. This acknowledgment requires a deep acceptance of the present moment and an understanding of a larger picture of existence in which we play a vital role. Our heartfelt intentions are heard; the universal love, or God, is listening. Yet, there is a deeper dynamic at play that often escapes our perception. Our senses are limited, and while personal growth can enhance our understanding, only a few truly comprehend the profound intricacies of life. The journey toward Love, whether on an individual or collective level, frequently necessitates navigating through shadows and challenges. I firmly believe that intentions grounded in love and kindness will eventually manifest, though the timeline may not align with our expectations. It's vital to remember that, in the vast cosmos, our perception of time is merely a human construct. A year on Earth might translate to a mere millisecond in a broader universe, emphasizing how limited our understanding truly is. Ultimately, if our intentions are anchored in compassion and love, I trust they will harmonize with the universe's will. My goal is to embody these values in every action I take. Embracing the unknown and letting go can be liberating, allowing us to experience life in its fullness, free from the burdens of control. Nigel Lott teaandzen.org Please donate and support my work at meditationsansfrontiere.com Get full access to Tea and Zen - Meditation Sans Frontieres at teaandzen.substack.com/subscribe