This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp. Take your mental and emotional well-being to the next level with BetterHelp. Our listeners can now get 10% off their first month by using the link provided, HERE #ad In this enlightening bonus episode, Sinead sits down with Melissa Hummelt,  a licensed therapist and senior clinical operations manager at BetterHelp, who has experience in anxiety, stress, self-esteem, depression, substance use, and life transitions for all people. Melissa has a special interest in working with Highly Sensitive Persons, and is passionate about social justice and serving historically marginalized group.  This episode shines a light on the complex topics of guilt and self-sabotaging behaviors. In this episode, listeners will discover: Guilt as a Compass: Guilt is explored as a powerful indicator that one's actions may be misaligned with their values. It's presented as a motivational force, urging individuals to take action and make amends when necessary.The Perils of Rumination: The conversation delves into the dangers of excessive rumination on guilt, which can spiral into shame and hinder personal growth. The importance of striking a balance between acknowledging guilt and using it constructively is highlighted.Unpacking Self-Sabotage: The concept of self-sabotaging behaviors takes center stage, with an exploration of the underlying motivations. These behaviors are often rooted in the desire to shield oneself from potential harm, even if it means hindering progress.Tools for Transformation: The episode stresses the significance of self-awareness, mindfulness, meditation, and journaling as powerful tools for understanding and challenging negative thought patterns and self-limiting beliefs.The Power of Self-Compassion: Listeners are encouraged to embrace self-compassion, treating themselves with the same kindness and understanding they offer to others. This self-love is hailed as a fundamental catalyst for personal growth.This episode provides a deep dive into guilt and self-sabotage, offering valuable insights and practical advice for personal development. Tune in to gain a better understanding of these complex emotions and how they can be harnessed as tools for positive change If you want to get involved with They Say Questions and Feedback: Submit your questions for future episodes of The Sinead Says Podcast on Instagram @thesineadsayspodcast or via email to [email protected] and we'll make sure to cover them in our upcoming shows. If you enjoyed it, please show your support by liking, subscribing, and leaving a review. Your feedback is important to us and it helps us to continue to create valuable content for you. Don't forget to connect with us: To send in your questions and feedback, visit us on Instagram @thesineadsayspodcast or drop us an email at [email protected]. Your participation fuels our upcoming shows. And if you found this episode insightful, please express your support by liking, subscribing, and leaving a review. Your valuable feedback fuels our mission to create content that makes a difference.