Episodes
Tendrils of the past manifest in the present and will continue to impact you into the future unless you take action. In this episode I discus the process of to identify and overcoming poverty mindset and other limiting beliefs. Sharing the story of moving out of home at 16, surviving of charity and government handouts, to thriving both personally and financially, whilst being able to ask for and offer products and services at rates that back then I could never have imagined possible. - Free...
Published 11/03/24
Published 11/03/24
Anger is a useful inner tool to keep us safe and living a life of purpose - only if it is embraced as an ally not a danger. Unfortunately, for some, our childhoods cause us to fear our own anger - rather than using to utilise it appropriately, we instead repress it and turn it inwards, with catastrophic consequences. In this episode I share how I have been afraid of my anger and how I am learning to reconnect and integrate it.- Free Shadow Work Journal PDF- Hunt Your Own Shadow - 12 Week...
Published 10/14/24
Are we doomed to repeat our past? To inflict upon our children what was inflicted upon us? If we are a product of our genetics intersecting with our environment, how can we break the cycle once and for all? In this episode I story of my past and why that has led me to give away all 17 of my books for free. Want all of my books for free? Just sign up to my email list!Curious about coaching? Book a session!
Published 10/03/24
No talking. No writing. No touching. Just 10+ hours a day meditating for 10 days straight… In this episode I share my experiences on a 10 day silent retreat at Dhamma Aloka, under the instruction of S.N. Goenka where I learnt the technique of Vipassana meditation. Here I share the lessons learnt, the insights acquired, and give my analysis of the experience. Simply put, it was one of the most profound (and painful) experiences of my life. Want all of my books for free? Just sign up to my...
Published 09/18/24
What do you do when you are genetically predisposed to have negative reactions to antidepressants, have lost your job, have had little success with talking therapies, and have not yet processed the trauma of the past? Answer: Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS) This episode is a collaboration with Dr Jenelle Tupek, director and founder of Balanced Membranes Heath Education, and the host of the Rewriting The Script podcast. Jenelle interviews me, discussing my experiences with how TMS...
Published 08/29/24
What is scarier: sitting in silence or the fact that you are afraid to sit in silence? In this episode I discuss how technology has granted us the ability to endlessly occupy the space that was once filled with silence. The benefits of which are obvious: education, entertainment, content and connection - but at what cost? What do we lose by blocking off access to such a fundamental aspect of the human condition? What is the value of silence? Want to work with me? Check out my coaching,...
Published 08/20/24
It feels like every tradition has a prescription on how you should sit; where to hold your hands, what to do with your eyes, and how you should handle sleepiness and pain are all prescribed.For advanced practitioners, these suggestions should be heeded, but for beginners, they can be a hindrance - one that can be so off prescriptive and off putting that it may cause said beginner to stop practicing. Simply put, the perfect posture is the one that keeps you meditating.In this episode, I share...
Published 07/27/24
Part product of the past, part vision for the future, part desire to live a meaningful life, part belief that I can make a difference …In this episode I break down the reasons why I feel compelled to share my soul online, discussing the journey I took to get here and where I am hoping to go.If you are wanting an in depth look at ‘my why’, this is for you. Links mentioned:Under The Influence, Reclaiming My ChildhoodHow To Get Your Sh!t TogetherPoetry, From A Dark Night Of The Soul Connect:Web:...
Published 07/07/24
How much of our reality do we create? Not from a ‘woo woo’ sense, but as a function of the result of the interaction between our past and our particular genetic predispositions? If we have faced significant life challenges, and have a fearful disposition, there is a chance that we will view the world and our future pessimistically. Alternatively, if we have had success, and have a positive disposition, then more than likely we will approach the world with hope. In this Reality Check Podcast...
Published 07/02/24
Buy more. Do more. Be more. Consume more. Watch more… This seems to be the mantra of modern society and it is kill us.We are losing our communities, forgetting our art, and wasting our lives, all in pursuit of an ever diminishing in value dollar and ever rising expectations to keep up with the proverbial Joneses. In this episode I read the poem ‘capitalistic desire’ from my book Wage Slave: The Unpaid Overtime Edition, and discuss the hypocrisy I feel as an artist living within a capitalistic...
Published 06/21/24
The difference between expectation and reality is often the source of significant discontent. Life trains us to search for ideals: the perfect partner, job, life, outcome. Unfortunately this almost never arises and even if it did, it would be fleeting. Thus there is a real potential for ongoing and almost contentious self inflicted suffering. Thankfully, happiness is closer than you think. By embracing mindfulness we can begin to see and address the impact of our expectations. In this...
Published 06/03/24
What greater gift can you give someone than the gift of presence? When you are fully present, mindful, and in the moment, you are able to give all those around you access to the best version of you, and thus the moment they are in with you. In this episode, I share with you a guided meditation that I have released on Insight Timer. It is based on the intersection between the following two quotes: ‘See how you are literally free of the future, for the simple reason that it hasn’t and will...
Published 05/24/24
‘Stuck Inside My Mind’Freestyle improve poetry. Watch the video on Instagram, and read the full poem here.Current offerings:- Hunt Your Own Shadow: free 12 week email course- Insight Timer: guided audio courses & free meditations- Skillshare: video courses on personal development- How To Get Your Sh!t Together: the last self-help book you will ever read- Bound To The Wings of a Butterfly: best selling poetry collection- How To Write Evocative Poetry: a guidebook for unlocking creativity-...
Published 05/09/24
The more you know about yourself the better choices you will make and thus the better life you will lead.In this episode I share some recent instances of deep personal insight where I discover things about myself that are both good, bad, and ugly.I share the importance of such discoveries as well as the ways in which I (and you can) foster further insights into your own nature.Resources mentioned:Discover Your Divine Purpose - Insight Timer Course1 on 1 Coaching & MentoringCurrent...
Published 04/27/24
Yesterday, a friend asked me how to meditate, that talk inspired this episode. Here is my guidance for absolute beginners: 1: sit comfortably (no pain or sleepiness)2: set a timer for 5 minutes3: pick a meditation object (breath, vision, sound)4: when you notice a wandering kind, bring it back to focus. A successful session is one that you complete, ideally every day! For further instruction on how to meditate, check out my book ‘Mindfulness, A Guidebook To The Present Moment’. Current...
Published 04/16/24
When you dedicate yourself to one thing, the lessons learnt begin to help you with everything. In this episode I discuss the quote by Miyamoto Musashi 'If you know the way broadly you will see it in all things' - applying the lessons I have learnt in martial arts, poetry, meditation, chess and life to one another, discussing the intersection between them all, as well as some of the implications and takeaways of 'knowing the way'. I also discuss how there is a silver lining to be found in...
Published 04/09/24
Two weeks ago I began transcranial magnetic stimulation (TMS) to treat my depression, anxiety and PTSD. 10 sessions in and I am starting to see significant progress. In this episode I share my experiences of the process and my hopes for the future. Current offerings:- Hunt Your Own Shadow: free 12 week email course- Insight Timer: guided audio courses & free meditations- Skillshare: video courses on personal development- How To Get Your Sh!t Together: the last self-help book you will...
Published 04/04/24
The moment we label something, it is limited. The label isn’t the truth, it is a representation of, it’s a finger pointing to the moon, it is a suggestion of possibility that always falls short of reality. In this episode I share the following poem and muse about its implications, leaving you with the spiritual practice of looking beyond the label, to see what it is pointing to, pulling it all the way back to the core, to consciousness. all labelsare an abstractionof form baring...
Published 03/30/24
In this session I share the audio from my presentation in the Breaking Boxes ‘Power Of Connection Summit’, where I joined seven other presenters over two days to talk on all things connection.My talk was titled ‘Connection From Within The Darkness’ - I talk about the disconnect we often feel to ourselves and the world following trauma and how we can being healing from it.This session begins with a brief introduction of myself and my work, followed by a long form guided...
Published 03/08/24
Identify and release the limiting beliefs that no longer serve you with this free 12 week email course. Featuring exclusive guided audio tracks, introspective contemplations, expansion challenges, and email coaching - this course will act as a guide, offering insights, prompts and suggestions that will help you to identify and release the limiting beliefs that no longer serve you. To sign up, just put your email here and I will send you an introduction email and week one’s content. You can...
Published 02/21/24
Life will shoot us with the first arrow - these are real injuries, setbacks, losses and pain. But the greater cause of our suffering comes form ‘the second arrow’ - the fear, anxieties, ruminations, and other internal mechanisations that we dwell upon. In this episode I discuss the concept of the second arrow, as well as how we can use it to eliminate significant amounts of excess (and useless) suffering. Check out my Insight Timer Profile & the book ‘Reflections of the Self’
Published 02/11/24
In this episode I share a guided meditation that I shared on the Insight Timer app. What if you were to give thanks in advance for the wonderful things that were going to happen? - And what if you used that question to reframe your gratitude practice into the future? In this session we contemplate this concept and suggest how it could be adapted to reduce anxiety and increase positivity and presence, both now and into the future. Work with me: 1 on 1 coaching and mentoring.
Published 12/27/23
In this session I share a guided meditation that I shared on the Insight Timer app. This track is an invitation to explore the beauty of the present moment. To stop the rush and to settle into the now. It begins with a discussion of the benefits of finding opportunities to meditate through out the day and then goes into a mindful story. Join me on a journey towards the peace of the present moment and embrace the beauty that is all around us.Follow me on Insight Timer Work with me: 1 on 1...
Published 12/10/23
This is the story of a dark night of the soul, of traversing the depths of despair, and of rebirth. It is the story of transformation from a shadow version of myself into my embodied fullness. It is the story of reintegration with my body after years of trauma, and of letting go of old wounds and identities that no longer serve me. It is a story of reframing my inner world, from victim hood into strength. It is a story of how I am now hunting my own shadow. Work with me: 1 on 1 coaching and...
Published 12/05/23