In this episode I talk with autistic polymath, maverick leader, business & life strategist and Tantra lineage holder Tanja Diamond. Tanja opens up about her own experiences as an introvert and offers valuable advice on embracing awkwardness during the dating process. She shares her insights on autism, relationships, and the journey to better sex. Hear more of Tanja’s journey with the unique dating challenges faced by individuals on the autism spectrum. During our conversation, we talk...

In this episode I talk with Love, Sex & Relationship Coach Iryna Sulim who specializes in men’s empowerment and sexual mastery.  Hear Iryna’s journey into Tantra and sacred sexuality and how that has informed her relationships as she becomes a mother.  During this conversation, we talk about the dance of the polarities within everyday life of kids, partners and jobs.  Iryna shares with us the importance of deep inner self-knowledge and tells us some easy ways to reconnect to your sexy...

In this episode I talk with Sex Coach, Will Tantra about the practice of Tantra and its impact on enhancing pleasure and intimacy in relationships. Hear about Will’s personal journey in the field of sex coaching and the benefits of practicing edging and energywork during masturbation.  We also talk about how to create a masturbation practice to prepare for partnered sex, the role of breath, sound, and movement in experiencing touch and the role porn plays in sexual fantasy.  Along the way,...

On this episode I sit down with professional Dominatrix and Coach, Daytona Day to dive into the world of Dominance & Submission (D/s). Hear how she got started in the world of fetish fashion which eventually led her to D/s and mentoring in that space.  In discussing the exploration of D/s within the kink world, we look at the value of understanding both the dominant and submissive energies within yourself as a path to empowerment. Daytona brings us through the ins and outs of exploring...

On this episode I sit down with Tantric Scientist Dr. Jessica Harvey to talk about sexuality as a sacred practice.  Hear her story of taking her MIT-trained Organic Chemist academic research skills and applying them to the exploration of consciousness and sacred relating.  We dive into the path of Tantric wisdom that teaches sexuality as a sacred path for awakening and liberation from suffering.  Dr. Harvey shares her perspectives on emotional intelligence, mens’ sexuality and how to empower...

 In this episode I sit down with filmmaker Max Carey, whose recent film, “tOuch Kink” explores  Human Sexuality and consensual kink practices. We discuss the evolution of kink culture, the importance of breaking free from societal boxes, and how the ethical guidelines used in BDSM can inform all kinds of romantic relationships beyond kink.  Our conversation wanders, like Max’s tour of over 137 countries, through some of his personal story from farm-boy to kinky film director and a range of...

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I sit down with accomplished Sex & Relationship Educator, Dr. Hazel-Grace Yates.   We took a deep dive into relationship repair - what it is, why to do it and her best tips on how to go about it.  Throughout our discussion, Hazel-Grace shared their personal journey to discover and embrace their own sexuality as well as the importance of doing the work to heal in relationships. During this  fun and deep conversation, they share how to do ...

In this episode I sit down with astrologer, witch, and shamanistic strategist Umoh Luna. In this VERY unfiltered conversation, we explore the dynamics of sexual energy, the drama triangle, bodily autonomy and how all of this ties into sexual responsibility.  We dive into all the things – shame, judgment, empowerment, victimhood and power.  Juicy, right?!  Umoh shares the importance of playful curiosity while  exploring your own body. This curiosity is not just for you to learn yourself, but...

In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, I sit down with clinical hypnotherapist, executive coach, and author Michelle Walters to talk about the power of the mind in shaping our reality. Michelle shares about her journey into the world of hypnosis, how it has since become her passion leading to her recently publish book, “An Alignment of Spirit”.  This was such a fun conversation as we delve into hypnosis for intimacy and relationships!  Personally, I’ve been curious about hypnosis for some...

In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Deborah Catt interviews Beth Davis, known as the Dr. Purpose, an advisor to entrepreneurs and career professionals globally. Beth uses her intuition, extensive sales, marketing, and content creation experience, along with expertise in scientific hand analysis and human design, to help clients discover and unleash their purpose and design their life around their gifts for soul fulfillment. Beth shares her journey into entrepreneurship and the...

Looking to create the juicy, connected sex life you crave?   Enjoy this sneak peek from one of my guests on the free Better Sex for Couples Summit, Feb 3-5. Shana James and Guy Shahra are two of over a dozen top sex & intimacy experts sharing their best information in this series of dynamic conversations.    such as how to Keep the relationship fire alive Harness sexual energy for more depth and creativity Feel empowered with pleasure Get playful with touch… from foreplay to...

When it comes to sex, sometimes you need some help. You may be wondering how you can move towards better sex, or even how you can make your current sex life better. It's hard to say exactly what steps you should take in your personal search for improving your sex life without some guidance.   In today's episode of The Better Sex Podcast, we are joined by Louis Brantmeyer, an extraordinary business coach for heart-centered coaches, powerful creator, magical manifestor, eclectic philosopher,...

Today on The Better Sex Podcast, we’re doing something a little different!  I’m turning the tables (or mic) around and for the first time ever, I’ll be the guest, and my dear friend, Missy Singer DuMars will interview ME!  In this intimate conversation, nothing is off-limits!  We’ll talk about my early relationships, unique childhood experiences, and how my passion for this work began.  Along the way, we’ll chat about how to get your ’sexy’ on, the basics of Tantra, Kink, Communication, and...

Dating can be stressful and intimidating at times, but it is also an excellent opportunity to connect with others, especially when you've found a good match. Whether you're a beginner to dating or looking for a refresher course in overcoming your dating fears, this episode is for you!   Today on The Better Sex Podcast, we have Matchmaker and Dating Coach Dan Silverman, who helps those singles prepare for fun dates by teaching them proven techniques for success. He offers immersive training...

In today’s episode of The Better Sex Podcast, we will be having conversations with Eirikah Delaunay, a writer, Witch, and sexual rebel who identifies as a white, polyamorous, bisexual, cisgender woman, Dominant-leaning Switch, and sadomasochist. She is also the mother of two amazing adult children, an executive-level academic professional, and previously a monogamous wife of 20 years. Both/and is her magic word.     The founder of Desire Alchemy, she is a somatic sex+relationship coach and...

Are you having sex with your partner and not feeling like you have a clear understanding of their sexual needs? Are you unsure of how to ask questions, make requests, or navigate through conversations about sexuality? If so, it may be time to look toward honest and authentic sex.   Today on The Better Sex Podcast, we have Shana James, who has coached more than a thousand men and women to have passionate connections and fulfilling relationships. Whether you're single and looking to date,...

Today on The Better Sex Podcast, we have Zahava Griss, Founder of Embody More Love, a spiritual kinky dance community for personal and cultural liberation. For over 22 years, Z has been guiding dance, embodiment, and eros as the source of healing, creativity, building community, and shifting our culture. Z's love coaching focuses on secure attachment, kink, gender, expression, polyamory, and the erotic arts.    In this episode, Z will unravel how they grew up with a lot of energy and was...

In today’s episode of The Better Sex Podcast, we are joined by Leah Piper.  Leah Piper, Founder of More Love Works and Co-Founder of the Sex Reimagined Podcast. Leah is a Certified Tantra Master Coach & Educator with a background in Positive Psychology. For 20 years she has been the primary female facilitator at the Source School of Tantra with Charles Muir.   By combining the ancient art of conscious loving with the modern science of well-being, her students have discovered that sex...

We’re glad you’re here!   Expectations about pleasure, and the messages you get about what it means to be a sexual being, are often deep. But I want you to know that it is possible to embrace pleasure —and that it is possible to find joy in your body and in the world around you.    In today’s episode of The Better Sex Podcast, we are joined by M'kali-Hashiki. M’Kali is a Somatic Sacred Storyteller & Erotic Ritualist. She holds certifications in Sexological Bodywork; Sound, Voice,...

Our whole lives are sex. Yes, you read that right. And I don’t mean it literally. Sometimes sex is boring; other times, it is exciting–which is pretty much like it.   Here’s a truth about sex– it’s not just about you getting an orgasm; forget about penetration; it’s just part of it. The truth is, sex feels good and even feels best when it touches parts of us that haven’t felt good in a while; it could be our fears, our traumas, our insecurities, or whatever that isn’t feeling good inside of...

You know that feeling when you're out in the world, and you feel safe? You know what I mean, right? It's that feeling that lets you breathe a little easier, and allows you to be yourself and do whatever you want—the ones that make you feel like there's no way out.   And it's also that same feeling when you're in bed with your partner and do the intense moments the way you desire. We all want this kind of safety and power in our lives. But how often do we get it? How often do we ever feel...

The key to better sex is to understand ourselves– what makes us feel good and what doesn’t. Women are often not given the chance to rule in bed or they aren’t even asked if they are enjoying the moment.  Communicating and understanding what we want as a woman allows us to live with more connection and pleasurable experience that suffices our desires and erotic fantasies– this is where real empowerment lies. Know that you can speak up for yourself and that maybe you can learn how to be more...

We don't think about it a lot, but our emotional and spiritual health plays a HUGE role in our sex life. This week, I've invited relationships expert and author Sequoia Stafford onto the show to unpack some of the less-obvious causes of challenges people run into in the bedroom - from erectile dysfunction to jealousy.  Join Sequoia and I as we discuss: Sequoia's healing journey and experiences with shamanism how to be courageously vulnerable with someone (and why you should) the spiritual...

Thea grew up in a traditional family where she was taught nothing about sex/intimacy/relating to others formally. She learned what she saw, did what she was told, and followed the path that she was promised would produce success... but when that path left her a newly divorced, stay-at-home mom of two kids in her late 20s, she decided it was time to try something different.  On her quest to learn who she was outside of the role of "mom", she learned to love and listen to herself again. This...