Someone asked us a question about this a while ago and it’s a topic we have been looking forward to discussing on the podcast. We weren’t sure where it would go, but actually it turned into a very interesting chat! Amongst other things, we discussed:  Whether being spoilt is actually a negative thing. If you can spoil a child with too much attention Why we can ‘be spoilt’ but children can’t! Whether treating is different to spoiling? How to deal with the situation when children get upset because they can’t have what they want . The instant world – has it had an effect on the way we parent? Judgement and parental approaches. Only children and being spoilt. Judgement and labelling in relation to the word ‘spoilt’ Explanation and appreciation and why they are both really important when communication with and role modelling for our children.  Links  Instagram - @bespokefamily / Facebook - @bespokefamily    Behaviour blogs Bespoke Family 1:1 Parent Consultations: https://www.bespokefamily.co.uk/parent-consultations   ‘Your Guide to...’ (our downloadable webinars) - get 25% off any guide with the code ‘PODCAST’  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.