Great Relationship Advice by Vanilla Listener
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“Hi, No sarcasm: I am not a swinger, thanks to Bella and Jase. A few months back, my wife and I randomly brought up the topic of swinging. Immediately my wife perked interest, so we explored the topic more. We got to the point where we did not know how to start swinging, so we needed to do active research. In comes, 4ourPlay. I randomly searched for a swinger podcast and found this one first. After a few podcasts I realized Bella and Jase had something, our marriage was lacking: strong communication skills. We never talked about our feelings much, and if we did, we said what the other wanted to hear. We made it a mission to improve our communication. The first couple of sessions, were rough. We basically unloaded 12 years of built up tension, jealousy, and misunderstandings. We got to the root of why my wife was interested in swinging in the first place. She was bored with our relationship and wanted to sleep with someone that finds her attractive. She didn’t know that I found her attractive, because I probably haven’t complimented her in years. I was ashamed in myself. We metaphorically wiped the slate clean and started over as if we just started dating. We went on dates, vacations with no kids, and started sexting each other while at work. After a week of freely speaking about how we actually felt about each other, she finally trusted me to tell her kinks and a variety of things to do with each other in the bedroom. We agreed to start exploring each other’s fantasies. We have learned more about each other in one month than we have ever known in 12 years of a relationship; having the time of our lives doing it. The door is not completely shut, but we are having so much fun with each other that we are not attracted to swinging at the moment. The stories are very enjoyable and hot, but the lessons are in their process of navigating their non-monogamist lifestyle. Bella and Jase’s communication skills develop the trust it takes to prosper in whatever lifestyle you choose. Plus, the stories help me think of new ideas for us to try in the bedroom. Thank you Bella and Jase for helping us avoid the mistake of swinging for the wrong reasons, in result saved my marriage.”
@WelcometoUAB via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/12/22
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“It’s very interesting to listen to while I’m working and in a way takes my mind off relationships to think about life and teaches me a variety of things that I did not know before.”
oneshot856 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
09/09/21
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“This is not just an informative listen, but Bella and jace are hilarious and really bring in a sense of “those old friends that you can totally hang out with. As a couple that are beginning to wade into these waters, we have been able to answer questions, find activities, and all around enjoy our...”Read full review »
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United States of America ·
03/16/22
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“Love your podcast. I listen immediately when a new episode comes out!! We are gonna check out Collette Dallas soon!”
GreenEyedBiGirl via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
03/28/21
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