Sometimes truth is stranger than fiction, at least that's what Tonya, Alison, Megan and Lia have learned in the world of ARMY fandom. Back before BTS got their hooks in us, we were avid K-drama watchers and one drama that delighted us was Her Private Life which depicts the secret life of a professional art curator who happens to be a little (lot) obsessed with a Kpop idol. We thought it was cute but also maybe over the top at first watch. Nowadays...we aren't so sure. Suddenly having a giant cut out of Jungkook in our living room seems pretty reasonable. So we decide to return to the drama with new eyes and see how we related to the exploration of adult women in fandom. If you have any questions email us at [email protected]. Want to try an audiobook for the bookclub? Don't forget to click here for your free Audible trial: http://www.audibletrial.com/afternoona*Audible is a sponsor of our sister pod over at Afternoona Delight Podcast* Want to catch other great BTS content? Visit www.afternoonaarmy.com. Love K-dramas too? Check out our sister podcast www.afternoonadelight.com. SHOW NOTES Our sister podcast Afternoona Delight did a full deep dive on Her Private Life: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/her-private-life-deep-dive/id1551567801?i=1000517096724 Spotify https://open.spotify.com/episode/3IlxRtQ7S2Jec41fC11EOu?si=uv6Dawk8TJymLVnsrloh-w  YouTube https://youtu.be/BH_ZASZyMYE  So I Married the Anti-Fan https://mydramalist.com/30519-so-i-married-an-anti-fan  Reply 1994 https://mydramalist.com/6753-reply-1994  Reply 1997 https://mydramalist.com/4689-reply-1997  Books The Comeback by Lily Chu https://lilychuauthor.com/the-comeback  XOXO by Axie Oh http://axieoh.com/xoxo/  BTS and Army Culture by Jeeheng Lee https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/48652799-bts-and-army-culture  Other How to report threatening/defaming fan behavior to Hybe: https://www.usbtsarmy.com/tutorials/report-malicious-posts  Primate study - primates paying with food to look at pictures of high-ranked primates https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/15797023/