Emma is joined by comedian and writer Francis Ellis, who speaks on behalf of modern men to answer questions like: What's it like showering with a bunch of other men after a lacrosse game? Why don't men share their feelings with each other? Are certain emojis a red flag? What do men think of as self-care? Then, Emma shares a recent dilemma involving an unexpected crush on her therapist. In the Why Do Men segment, Francis helps a listener understand why her boyfriend refuses to carry a bag. Finally, they wrap up with a lightning round about chicken, sex, and the military. Email us at [email protected] with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @francisellis Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices