Does assisting the other penis with lube application just feel like the polite thing to do? Burlesque Performer and Kinesthesiologist Jet Noir grew up rejecting the label ‘Bisexual’, because although his mother and father raised him shame-free, the world isn’t quite so openminded. Moving out on his own at 18, he started dating with intention, trying on prospective partners with the intent of recreating the ‘wife and babies’ life that had surrounded him. But as he stood at his father’s grave and watched his mother wave goodbye to the casket, Jet came to a life-changing realization: That was their story, not his, and he never wanted to go back to ‘normal’ ever again. #ShameFree #NoLabels #BeWhoYouAre #DiscoverYourself #MentalHealth   Song: ’No Matter What’ (Calum Scott)   Bisexual l Queer | Gay l Pansexual l Family l Death l Wife and Kids l Shame | Evaluating Life Partners l Fire and Brimstone Church l Gay is Serious l Buy You a Woman l Best Friends l Label It l Manhood | Molesting l Marriage l Dad Jokes l Dating with Intention l Queer Lifestyle l Reassurance l l The Nod l Funeral l Their Story l Let Go l Changed Everything l Attracted to Everyone l Lubrication l Am I Straight l All Inclusive l Out l Pride l Every Gender l   About our Storyteller:   Jet Noir has been involved in sex positive communities since 2002 when he lived in Atlanta and wandered into the now defunct Club Venus. As a Kinesiologist, educated in the study of human movement and sport psychology, he has spent years coaching people to improve their perception of their bodies. He has taught workshops on improving the relationship we have with our five senses (interoception). He’s lectured on unpacking racial fetishization, humor in sex education, and navigating consent, internationally. He’s done clip work and education workshops for Kink dot com. He worked as an organizer for Express Yourself, a play party for people of color by people of color, in Oakland and as the emotional support “Angel” for a few other Bay Area sex positive communities. Jet is a writer who reviews sex toys and porn. Jet lives in Oakland, CA with his partner and their three cats. Episode links:   SUBSCRIBE: Social Media is shutting me down, and the only way to be sure we can connect is by signing up for Bawdy’s email newsletter. It will tell you about upcoming live shows and workshops, plus I’m working on a National Tour right now, so we might just be coming to a city near you! Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email list & you’ll be notified of all upcoming storytelling workshops, livestreams, podcasts, live traveling shows, fan meetups and special events first at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe   WORKSHOP: ‘How to Be Fascinating: Dixie’s Secret System for Brilliant Storytelling’ is now a One Day Workshop, and it’s happening soon - in both San Francisco and Los Angeles! Join Dixie live and in-person, where she’ll teach you her incredibly easy (and super secret) method to rock that job interview, excel at public speaking, to feel more at ease on dates, and yes, stand onstage and deliver a standing-ovation worthy chapter from your life.   This method is incredibly valuable because once you learn how, you’ll know the secret forever. #LifeSkills #NotJustBawdy   In Los Angeles on Sunday, November 5th Register now at https://tinyurl.com/HTBFWorkshopLA   In San Francisco on Sunday, December 3rd (this one’s almost Sold Out!) Register now at https://tinyurl.com/HTBFWorkshopSFO   Questions? Email Dixie at [email protected]   Patreon: Bawdy Storytelling is in dire financial straits right now. Only You can help keep Bawdy going: Please consider a donation (of any amount) to our Patreon or through a one-time donation below. I want to keep producing, archiving and sharing these exceptional, one-of-a-kind true stories for you for a long, long time - but I’m totally dependent on my audienc