The Charismatic {Speakers}: This is the kind of person who spends all their time talking. Lecturing. Weaving shimmering webs of ideas into the air. They’re often quite eloquent and charismatic; listening to them can be great fun. Which is precisely the problem — because in the end, passively listening to someone talk is a really inefficient way to learn. We learn by doing, exploring, discovering for ourselves. By asking questions, interacting, engaging with ideas. (Another reason why Socratic method works so well.) -Dan Coyle "A Field Guide to Avoiding Toxic Teachers/Coaches"   Contact me at [email protected] Check out what actually makes teachers good here.  Watch Perel's lecture HERE P.S. If you enjoyed this check out my other review on what DOES make therapist better here.