Embarking on the quest for love can often feel like navigating a maze without a map, but fear not, for we've got some light to help guide the way! Adam and Ashlee open their hearts, discussing the intricate dance of Christian dating—a journey where 'game' takes on a new, more genuine form. They tackle the myths and truths about confidence and courtship, all while reflecting on the thoughtful strategies and faith-led boundaries Adam embraced in the pursuit of his now-wife, Ashlee. It's a candid narrative of intentionality and respect, offering insight for anyone looking to find meaningful companionship without compromising their beliefs. As we wander further into the maze, we confront the enigma of defining relationships sans labels. It's a conversation many shy away from, but not us; we reveal how a transition from friendship to engagement can be seamless, sidestepping the dated boyfriend-girlfriend paradigm. We compare notes on Christian versus secular dating norms and recall personal stories of love lost and the lessons learned from relationships built on shaky foundations. This segment is an open invitation to consider the depth of connection and commitment, even if it means breaking away from the familiar. Finally, we broach the profoundly personal topic of abstinence and its profound impact on both pre-marital and marital life. Here, we explore the virtues of restraint and the spiritual framework supporting it. From the pitfalls of pornography to the importance of maintaining boundaries—even after saying 'I do'—they share their experiences, hoping to illuminate the path for others. Whether you're single, dating, or already hitched, this discussion serves as both a guide and affirmation for anyone navigating the evolving landscape of relationships through a lens of faith. Don't forget to leave us a review! :) -- BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- Dave Ramsey Course https://www.ramseysolutions.com/ramseyplus/hosts/alfcranchoca?pc=78239020 -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://alfc.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com