What matters more when choosing a partner: someone you can build a life with or someone you are in love with? Have you ever questioned the recipe for a lasting marriage? Is it a pinch of love or a hefty scoop of practicality? We tackle this heart-centered debate head-on, challenging the conventional wisdom that suggests foundations of practicality might outweigh those of romance. We dissect this layered issue by reflecting on a provocative video that ignited our thoughts, and we weave in our own marital experiences to enrich the conversation. From the spark of love versus the steady burn of companionship to the thorny topics such as financial stability and the dreaded 'gold digger' accusation, we leave no stone unturned.Our personal tales serve as the canvas, painting the intricate picture of how love and friendship play out in the sacred dance of marriage. Navigating the high seas of marital dynamics, we delve into the nuanced differences in how we communicate with a spouse as opposed to a best friend. Candid stories are shared that illustrate the variances in these relationships, emphasizing why understanding these distinctions is crucial. We also discuss how passion, attraction, and financial concerns intermingle, and how striking a balance between heart and head is key. Lastly, we get personal, opening up about our journeys through the ebbs and flows of love and sacrifice within our relationships. We share how aligning dreams, expectations, and personal aspirations with our partners is a dance of love, communication, and shared vision. With stories ranging from soccer fields to church fields, the choices between career and family, and the decisions that shape our paths, Adam and I illustrate the power of unified sacrifice and love.Join us as we explore these heartfelt topics, offering insights into the ever-evolving nature of relationships and the joys of fulfilling dreams with those we hold dearest. Thanks for reading and watching! Don't forget to leave a comment :) -- BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- Dave Ramsey Course https://www.ramseysolutions.com/ramseyplus/hosts/alfcranchoca?pc=78239020 -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://alfc.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com