This week we talk about the importance of growing together as a couple, and not being left behind while the other excels. Oftentimes, there's one partner who is more invested in growth than the other and this can be challenging. But what if you just needed a different approach? Raf and April speak on how April was able to get Raf on board without force and the lessons she learned on what not to do. They also responded to their first "Dear Besties" submission about the roles between parents of being the "good cop/bad cop."  To submit your question or story for "Dear Besties" go here.  Be sure to follow us on instagram @bluntwithmybesties