“I was referred to this podcast by a friend who read the book. Both of us are professional women with senior management roles in the finance industry. Both of us have experienced divorce and gone the self development path. I’ve been on the path for a decade.
This topic is a great thing to put out in the world: healing and self development for women who are serious about creating a life they desire and not settling into something by default. Bravo on that.
Though, Episode 88, talking about healing and rising up to mirror the qualities we seek in a man to find our “king”, has some serious flaws.
The coach is clearly enthusiastic about this work, however, it is clear she speaks as though she has 10-20 years’ experience vs the 5 years she disclosed. The PR background shines through. We hear her love for running her own business and charging lots for her time and all the free content. Ok, fine. One needs sales to generate business.
There’s many more layers she’s yet to peel back on her journey, which is fine. Aren’t we all a work in progress? It’s what she’s representing in her remarks about dating expectations and the difference she lays out for men and women as a coach that is problematic.
She says women seeking a king shouldn’t jump in bed with him. (Agree) But she says she doesn’t mind if her king needs to Netflix and chill with some other girl in the meantime while they become friends and build trust. “I don’t expect you to be a monk while I warm up to things.”
Whoa. Huge red flag.
1) High quality men aren’t looking for one night stands anymore than we are.
2) Why would any self respecting woman invest emotionally into a budding relationship with a man having casual sex with other people?
3) why would a coach place such a contradiction?
Reconsider the content here. This is a couple notches below what we consider a truly evolved vibe.”
777MJB via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
06/10/21