After years of struggling in a tumultuous marriage – successful writer & blogger Rebecca Woolf was finally ready to leave her husband, Hal. Two weeks after telling Hal she wanted a divorce, he was diagnosed with late-stage pancreatic cancer. Four months later, at the age of forty-four, he died. With inordinate courage & candour, Rebecca chronicles the months before Hal’s death — & her rebirth after he was gone.  In her book, All of This – A Memoir of Death & Desire- which is a stunning, provocative & masterfully nuanced read - Rebecca reflects on the end of her marriage & how her husband’s devastating illness finally gave her the space to make peace with his humanity & her own. Ultimately, Rebecca’s journey is one woman’s story of embracing the complexities of grief without shame — as a mother, a widow, & a sexual being—& emerging on the other side of a relationship with gratitude & relief.   BUT BEFORE YOU GO… Find out more about Rebecca here Purchase Rebecca’s  masterfully nuanced memoir, “All of This – A Memoir of Death & Desire” here  Follow Rebecca on Insta here Follow Rebecca on Facebook here Follow Rebecca on Twitter here Find out more about Tam here Follow Tam on Insta   Follow BRAVE JOURNEYS on Insta Join the conversation and chat about the episode here   NEED MORE INSPIRATION? Find other BRAVE JOURNEYS episodes here CREDITS:  Creator, Host & Executive Producer: Tammi Faraday  With thanks to my special guest: Rebecca Woolf Audio Editor: Zoltan Fecso With very special thanks to George Weinberg and Ursula Ferguson    BRAVE JOURNEYS acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Yaluk-ut Weelam Clan of the Boon Wurrungwho are part of the Kulin Nation. We pay our respect to their Elders, both past, present and emerging and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.