On this episode of How to Be Fine, Kristen and Jolenta talk about the controversy surrounding Hilaria Baldwin’s identity. Plus, they offer up advice on deciding if it’s time to move to another country, and politely declining gifts. Do you have an advice question for us? Email us at [email protected], or tweet us @jolentag, @kristenmeinzer, or @howtobefinepod. And if you haven't already, please join our How to Be Fine (formerly By the Book) Facebook community! https://www.facebook.com/groups/kristenandjolenta Sources: https://www.vulture.com/article/alec-baldwin-rust-shooting-hilaria-baldwin-halyna-hutchins.html https://www.vulture.com/2023/04/alec-baldwin-charges-dropped-rust-shooting.html#_ga=2.15440117.213573197.1682019009-1992599784.1654648858 https://www.vogue.com/article/hilaria-baldwin-accent-controversy-explainer https://www.instagram.com/p/CJB4FXwBmq3/ https://www.nytimes.com/2020/12/30/style/hilaria-baldwin-interview.html https://www.lamag.com/culturefiles/hilaria-baldwin/ https://www.thecut.com/2021/07/hilaria-baldwin-is-once-again-defending-her-culture.html https://www.instagram.com/p/CRE6J9WMvAC/ https://nymag.com/intelligencer/2020/12/instagram-detective-tracie-egan-morrissey-on-hilaria-baldwin.html https://www.insider.com/hilaria-baldwin-spanish-controversy-public-life-timeline-2020-12#baldwin-goes-on-to-say-she-feels-lucky-she-grew-up-with-two-cultures-and-speaking-two-languages-36 https://www.vanityfair.com/style/2016/12/hilaria-baldwin-book-living-clearly-method https://www.thecut.com/2016/03/hilaria-baldwin-diet-workout-routine.html https://jezebel.com/alec-baldwin-hilaria-charges-dropped-instagram-1850362101 https://www.instagram.com/p/CrRnITqv9ir/ https://www.instagram.com/p/CrRcNmjuZVd/ https://www.vulture.com/2020/12/hilaria-baldwins-accent-and-amy-schumer-feud-explained.html https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G0QmKL8irgI&t=64s https://www.dailymail.co.uk/video/tvshowbiz/video-2319068/Video-Hilaria-Baldwin-talks-Amy-Schumer-comments-body-shaming.html https://stylecaster.com/hilaria-baldwin-spanish-accent/ https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9099983/Genealogist-weighs-Hilaria-Baldwin-fiasco-confirm-NO-Spanish-roots.html https://www.today.com/video/make-hilaria-baldwins-simple-gazpacho-547323459831 https://www.instagram.com/stories/highlights/17865567221283105/