James Sexton in the tent today to discuss the real reason love can fail and how marriage can ruin lives. He's a genius and a truly fascinating story teller. He might seem cynical,  but i truly think he's just extremely realistic. WELCOME TO CAMP!! Edited and Produced by:  @99OvrAll   Thanks to  Morgan and Morgan  Zippex Blue chew  for supporting the greatest show ever TIMECODES 00:00 Intro  1:19 Is Marriage antiquated?  9:42 What can replace marriage? 13:44 Purpose of marriage + benefits  19:58 College sweethearts + is it healthy for children?  30:25 People are heroes in their stories  31:37 2nd child = 8% more  34:35 Marriage is the assumption 44:35 Divorces + "the dog will be sold"  47:01 Pre-nups + they're valid! 56:56 Sexton's divorce + seeing the person as a whole  1:01:23 Counsel, Family/Friends’ influence + divorces are boring  1:07:09 Societal norms + agreeing and understanding the rules  1:13:37 Marriage counselling + no fault divorces are great  1:23:04 Approaching difficult conversations  1:31:22 Women are paying alimony now  1:35:25 Pre-nups for whose benefits + Crazy pre-nup clauses  1:49:25 Know what you want and know how to ask for it  1:56:37 No infidelity clauses + open relationships  2:05:36 Vulnerability and real asks & gestures  2:12:05 Representing the bad guy  2:17:51 Working in NYC  2:24:10 Service of papers is a game  2:27:44 Role of porn + Romcoms are porn for women  2:38:53 Therapy using psilocybin + hearing your clients fully  2:49:55 Clients reconciling + Going to a mediary  2:54:57 Stand-up comedy is truly a trial  3:02:03 Have to take risks + feeling out your audience  3:09:08 Seeing Dave Chappelle EARLY  3:12:47 Bombing in court hard + clients lie