In this episode, I chat with reality star, content creator, and host of the popular gay podcast Gays In The Wild (previously Travelin Bum and Behind the Bum), Jeff Perla. Jeff and I chat about the importance of talking openly about sex, the main issues we face in the gay community (primarily how our lack of presence hinders connection), and how to use other people’s judgements to fuel our purpose.     About Me  I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.  Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/     About Jeff Perla  Jeff Perla is the Amazon Prime star of The One That Got Away, content creator, and host of the popular gay podcast Gays In The Wild (previously Travelin Bum and Behind the Bum).  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeffperlaa/   Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/gays-in-the-wild/id1456057533   The One That Got Away: https://www.amazon.com/One-That-Got-Away-Season/dp/B09ZHMJZGX     Connect With Me  Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/   Website: https://georgelizos.com/   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos   Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/    My Books  Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj   Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf   Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd