In this episode, psychotherapist and author of Polysecure Jessica Fern and I discuss the various dimensions of Consensual non-monogamy. Jessica shares whether polyamory is a privilege or whether everyone can do it, the connection between polyamory and trauma, and how to enter open relationships without hurting our partners. Finally, Jessica shares a six-step process of creating secure attachment styles with multiple patterns.    About Me   I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.    Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/     About Jessica Fern  Jessica Fern is a Psychotherapist, Coach, and Certified Clinical Trauma Professional. Jessica is the author of Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and NonMonomgamy and The Polyseucre Workbook: Healing Your Attachment and Creating Security in Loving Relationships. In her international private practice, Jessica works with individuals, couples, and people in multiple-partner relationships who no longer want to be limited by their reactive patterns, cultural conditioning, insecure attachment styles, and past traumas, helping them to embody new possibilities in life and love.      Jessica’s website: http://jessicafern.com/  Polysecure: https://www.amazon.com/Polysecure-Attachment-Trauma-Consensual-Nonmonogamy/dp/1944934987/   Polywise: https://www.amazon.com/Polywise-Deeper-Dive-Navigating-Relationships/dp/1990869149/     Connect With Me   Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/   Website: https://georgelizos.com/   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos   Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/    My Books   Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj   Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf   Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd