In this month’s episode, Janet speaks with Dr. Barbara Fidler, a clinical developmental psychologist, who has been practicing for over 35 years and has an independent practice in Toronto. A large part of her practice is working with parents and children in separation/divorce. She provides a range of services including therapy with couples and families, consultations, family mediation and parenting coordination. Also, she is an author and provides training to mental health professionals, lawyers and the judiciary. Janet and Barbara discuss the complexities of involving children in mediation, helping parents develop a parenting plan and the impact of divorce on the parents and children. Here are some resources that Barbara recommends: www.oafm.ca (Ontario Association of Family Mediators) www.afccontario.ca - for Parenting Plan resources www.ourfamilywizard - one excellent co-parenting communication app Association of Family and Conciliation Courts > Resource Center > Family Resources www.highconflictinstitute.com - co-parenting resources and communication tools, including BIFF (Brief, Informative, Friendly & Firm) healthyparent.com (Dr. Ben Garber’s website, full of resources for parents, books, articles) Center for the Developing Child www.developingchil.harvard.edu/resources/ - full of information about building resiliency, toxic stress, etc.; many very short video clips Split: A Film For Kids of Divorce (& Parents) (30 min film) - www.splitfilm.org Don’t Divorce Me (2012, HBO) - www.hbo.com (30 min) For more information on CATCH, please visit our website.