In this podcast episode, I sit down with a man intrigued by the "No Kissing for 3 Months" dating rule but puzzled about the no exclusivity aspect. He expresses concern that by not going exclusive, he might miss out if the woman chooses someone else before he gets a chance. I take this opportunity to clarify the process, emphasizing the importance of not giving exclusivity out of insecurity. We delve into why a thorough vetting period is crucial for building a solid foundation in relationships.   I also recommend he check out my book, "The Perfect Play," the ultimate dating guide for men. Join us for an enlightening discussion that sheds light on mindful dating strategies and the value of patience.