James Sexton is a divorce lawyer in high-conflict cases. He wrote the book How To Stay In Love based on his nearly 3 decades of inside access to the explosive end of relationships We chat about why people grow to hate the ones they love, why marriage is a broken technology, how to craft the perfect prenup to avoid financial ruin, and the most important rule for not having your relationship end in a divorce. Thanks for listening! Subscribe to James Sexton: https://www.instagram.com/nycdivorcelawyer/ http://www.nycdivorces.com/ If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand If you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔 ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 00:00 - Intro 00:24 Divorce And Death 06:28 The Inevitability of Mortality 08:12 The Significance of Your Choice 10:22 The Role of Marriage 17:00 What's Worth Holding On To? 22:54 The Anti-Cheating Factor 28:20 How Sex Drives Successful Relationships 30:40 The Perfect Prenup: Yours, Mine, Ours 39:16 Men and Marriage 48:38 Winning an Unjust Court Case 58:20 Wealth's Influence on Justice 1:00:04 Child Support: Legal Obligations Explained 1:04:01 Making the Uncomfortable Your Ally 1:07:52 Relationship Advice: Disappoint Your Partner 1:11:43 The Threat of Inner Insecurities 1:13:48 Core Needs 1:18:00 Where James Learned Charisma 1:25:01 How Conflict is Good For Couples 1:27:21 Arguments 1:34:37 Learn More About James Sexton Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy