Today's episode was all about those red flags and deal-breakers in relationships. We had the hilarious and insightful Jessie Woo join us to dive deep into what makes us say "nah" or "I can deal" when it comes to the men we date. From guys who don't celebrate holidays to those who've been to prison, we covered it all. Jessie shared her personal experiences, and let me tell you, the laughs were non-stop. We also touched on some serious topics, like the importance of men knowing basic life skills and the struggles of dating in today's world. Jessie opened up about her family background, her journey to success, and the challenges she faced along the way. And of course, we couldn't let Jessie go without playing a round of "I'm Curious to Know" and getting her take on our listener's dilemma about starting a hoe phase in her mid-thirties. Jessie's advice? You're never too old to explore your sexuality but always prioritize your safety and emotional well-being. We wrapped up the episode with a reminder to join us on our upcoming trips with 10 Vacation Days & Paradise & Vibe and to check out local events for those looking for love this Valentine's Day. Remember, whether it's a red flag or a deal breaker, always trust your gut and never settle for less than you deserve. Until next time, keep those cocktails flowing and those discussions dirty. Cheers! Try VIIA Hemp! https://bit.ly/3J1UitO and use code COCKTALES! Thanks to our sponsors! Head to FACTORMEALS.com/cocktales50 and use code cocktales50 to get 50% off. Check out some of our other sponsors here: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Want to sponsor or collaborate with us? contact us at [email protected] Interested in being a guest? Please contact [email protected] and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links! For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to St. Lucia Feb 15-20! Use code KIKI for $100 off! Payment plans available https://10vacationdays.com/ Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Speed Dating Event Coming Up in Atlanta https://partiful.com/e/ZC6k1eNkJqohTGok6qTV Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.