Episodes
Guest Jaclyn Wagner helps us figure what we might being doing wrong when looking for our dream relationship. Are you pushing away someone that might be great for you? Do you really know what it is you want in someone? Listen as we talk to an expert...hear her give Jeff some therapy on what he's doing wrong... Sign up for Jaclyn's program. Jaclyn Wagner
Published 05/24/23
Guest Lindsey Marie Barber coach’s men and women to find aligned love that complements and invigorates their life mission as well as build out their legacy. She talks about her programs to help you step into the confident version of your future self who has already built this legacy, learn how to channel that inner voice for intuitive guidance. Give a listen and find out how to find the love and life you want.   Find more about Lindsey in this episode and on her website. If you contact her...
Published 05/17/23
Single, Self Sufficient, Successful, and Happy. Who needs dating? just be single...that's not really the only message of the book "Single, Self Sufficient, and Successful" by the beautiful and intelligent author Manju Lal. But she does acknowledge that you don't need a relationship to have a great life. Society's focus on romantic reltionships and marriage can make a person, especially women, feel like they're failures if they're not in a relationship or more importantly married. Here Manju...
Published 05/11/23
The Winggirl, Marni, is female dating coach for men and has spent the last decade helping tens of thousands of men stop being Mr. Nice Guy and become Mr. Holy S&*T, I Want Him!!! Her methods help guys flirt, she explains the 6 things guys do to ruin their chances, tells guys what to talk about on dates. Women, listen and see if you think her methods would work or are good advice. The Winggirl Method
Published 05/03/23
Dating can be challenging and that's why it's nice to have experts that can give us some advice on it. Dr. Aimee Callahan helps us navigate the dating waters. Aimee is the author of a "Rewilding of Women" that helps women rediscover their inner selves to lead to happier lives and more fulfilling relationships. All the info for Aimee can be found at her website https://draimeecallahan.com
Published 04/26/23
Part 2 of Meet Nicole...she seems to make a lot of bad choices...from her first marriage to an alcoholic that cheats with her bestie, to her new boyfriend in Oregon(she lives in Colorado) who is still married, her newer boyfriend that she moves in with and he becomes her boss but who is married with children in London…then her new husband who claims to be a billionaire but is also a control freak that essentially bans her from leaving the house for fear she’ll f**k the waiter in the bathroom....
Published 04/19/23
Meet Nicole...she seems to make a lot of bad choices...from her first marriage to an alcoholic that cheats with her bestie, to her new boyfriend in Oregon(she lives in Colorado) who is still married, her newer boyfriend that she moves in with and he becomes her boss but who is married with children in London…then her new husband who claims to be a billionaire but is also a control freak that essentially bans her from leaving the house for fear she’ll f**k the waiter in the bathroom. Nicole is...
Published 04/12/23
As we discuss dating is tough, sometimes we need help. Rebecca Schocker helps navigate the dating world starting with yourself... the old adage love yourself so you can love and be loved by another. Dating with intention, meaning know what you want and how to get it.  Rebecca is available for online dating coaching and help with getting your life together or just making a few tweaks to improve it.  Real with Rebecca
Published 04/05/23
Find out how a meet n' greet with host Jeff goes. Includes lots of do's and don't's for a first date and ideas for your online dating profile. Special guest Marci who now has a dating coaching service found here:  Dating Coach Marci Also: Dating with Marci
Published 03/28/23
New Facebook groups named "Are We Dating the Same Guy?" have begun to appear in most cities around the country. There are groups "Are We Dating the Same Girl?" but they have very few members and not very good. The Are We Dating the Same Guy group in Denver has over 40,000 members! This episode we talk about these groups and questions on their accuracy, moral issues like is it fair to guys, or is it useful for women. 
Published 03/23/23
This episode I talk to someone that was married for 29 years and now at 50 yrs old is out in the dating world. When you’ve been married for 29 years and then start dating it can be confusing, interesting, and funny. You really need to be true to yourself and what you want and don’t want. This guest encountered transgender, old high school boyfriends wanting threesomes and lots of other things along the way. But good news you can find a relationship you’re happy about. Let’s start the episode...
Published 03/15/23
Dating and relationships can be frustratinga and confusing, that's why I started this podcast. So we often look for resources. Things like books, or podcasts…and sometimes coaches. Someone that can offer an objective viewpoint and guidance on what to do. Anything from healing from your past relationships and dating experiences to help with online profiles and wardrobe. This episode I have Cassie Callister (see links below). From life experiences and from ongoing training in life coaching she...
Published 03/08/23
Continuing the story of Camille who falls in love with the man of her dreams, when she decides to try dating 10 yrs after the tragic death of her husband. She finally tries dating and meets a great guy and they start a beautiful relationship. Then one day she gets a text from her new boyfriend's phone telling her that it's actuallly his ongoing girlfriend texting to let Camille know they're still together and then threatens Camille if she doesn't stop seeing him and send Camille nude pics of...
Published 03/01/23
In a previous episode we heard "Camille's" story of her new love and how it all went bad. She started getting texts from HIS phone sent by his ex/current-girlfriend. The texts included threats from the woman and nude photos of this "ex" girlfriend. Listen to this and one other follow up episode to find out what happens when he tries to explain and she confronts him and when Camille starts talking to this ex...
Published 02/22/23
We talk to the gorgeous Emily Victoria about her OnlyFans account. Find out how it impacts her relationships, what men ask her to do, what her mom thinks about it, all that and more. You can find/see Emily on Instagram at @emilyvictoriaofficial or see/subscribe to her OnlyFans at Emily's OnlyFans  Facebook at Emily Victoria Facebook
Published 02/02/23
A guest tells a story of misunderstanding in her interactions with someone she was interested in dating. She thought the guy was interested in dating her although it was never explicitly stated. Maybe he was but they never talked about it specifically. See what you think. 
Published 12/15/22
In the ongoing them of Chairlift Confessions and anonymous guest tells her story of falling in love with someone that seemed like the perfect match for a widow that had held off on a relationship for years. When she finally decides to go for it she gets more than she planned including nude photos but not from her new man...from his "ex" girlfriend sent from his phone!!
Published 11/14/22
Discussion with author Marlisse Testa about her book "Stow Your Luggage When Dating". Figuring out how to find a great relationship whether you're re-entering the dating world after a breakup or divorce or just trying to get better at finding a great match. Marlisse has a lot of ideas and tools to make your dating better and practical advice for online dating. Including how to make sure you've gotten over your past traumas and heartbreaks. 
Published 11/08/22
In the continuing series of stories of love that you want to tell but maybe don't want people to know what you did... you confess your stories to us. Like you're riding a chairlift with us and we listen, and add some funny commentary. In this story "Jason" (names changed) falls for someone while travelling but she lives 1300 miles away. No problem, there's air planes. But then there are problems that really blow up on a romantic adventure to London. It's a good story and we can all learn...
Published 11/01/22
Love priestess Dina Joy Rifkin joins us to talk about ways to improve your dating. Immediately click with someone and fall for them right away?.. that could be a red flag! Keep having the same bad experiences with your dates? Find ways to search better, have better success with online dating and hear the hell yes signs and run away signs of online profiles and first dates and a lot more. Find Dina's books and dating support at Love and Qi 
Published 10/04/22
You've been dating for awhile or maybe not that long but you're just over it, tired of it, burned out. It's frustrating, heartbreaking, and not fun anymore. You're not alone...studies show that most people are "burned out" from dating, dating apps, and trying to find relationships. Jeff and Mindy go over this and commiserate with you. Give a listen and see if you agree. 
Published 09/22/22
This episode we talk to the Denver Queen of Speed Dating Cynthia Pfeffer from Figs and Dates . She tells us about what she's seen with the hundreds of speed dates she's hosted and gives us tips and observations to improve your speed dates or regular dates. 
Published 09/11/22
Our guest Jacqui Pugh has some advice for fixing the common denominator in relationship disasters: Ourselves! Struggling with a breakup, serial bad dates and relationships, difficulty getting over your divorce or ex?  You really need to look in the mirror and in your own mind and heart. Take a break from dating and take action to really get over your ex(s), dive into why you keep repeating relationship patterns. Check out the episode and find more info on Jacqui's programs and tell her Dating...
Published 08/12/22
This episode we talk about our experiences with speed dating. Jeff and Mindy went to separate speed meet n' greet events. One a traditional sit down talk for 5 mins and move to the next one and one a speed mingling where your group chats for 10-15 mins then moves to a new group. Both great ways to meet that might lead you to the love of your life.
Published 07/19/22
We talk to psychotherapist and dating-book author Marlisse Testa and get her advice on finding your next great relationship. Tips on making sure you're ready to date, first date/Meet n' Greet ideas and suggestions. Plus some great fun concepts to help make your next first date, your last first date. Marlisse Testa Look for her new book coming soon: "Stow Your Luggage When Dating"
Published 07/05/22