This is where we now begin to get clarity on your true, authentic wants. For a lot of people the biggest revelation is actually becoming aware of wants that are not in fact, true and authentic. Things you may have been pursuing a long time. Maybe your whole life. Expectations you’ve had but now you realize...they aren’t inherently important to you! That can be discouraging or freeing. In this personal development industry all our focus is on what we go after and achieve. Over my lifetime,...

I bring you the story of Chad Jeffers. Whether you know Chad or not you’ve likely seen and heard him, as he has been a primary performer with Carrie Underwood for the past 13 years. If you’ve seen Carrie on stage you’ve seen Chad face to face with her as he supports her with his majestic guitar playing. What were the motives, the reasons, that drove Chad to be able to climb onto literally, the world’s greatest stages? I’d be lying if I denied how impressive it is that Chad Jeffers is...

In the world of personal development and self-help we often find ourselves with a desire that just doesn’t light on fire. We really struggle to take action and find ourselves frustrated or feeling guilty and ultimately thinking less of ourselves due to the inaction and lack of progress. It finally dawned on me as I looked at some of my own areas of languishing that I didn’t fully want it. I wanted...to want it. I really did want the end result, but I either didn’t see myself doing what it...

Benjamin Hardy has written two bestselling books that I reference over and over and over. Paradigm shifting tools in the personal development world I literally recommend everyone read. First is, “Willpower Doesn’t Work” that dispels the myth we are supposed to just grit our teeth and withstand anything at all times. Then more recently, “Personality Isn’t Permanent” which dispels the myth that we all fit into a personality profile, which we get into some in this show. But of course here I dig...

When I ask people to list out what they really want in life, a shocking amount of their answers are in truth, imposters. Two categories that make up so much of what we think we want but at the core, do not. This is why people go to college, get degrees, and go to work in areas they find no fulfillment in. And it’s why competent people who have success in some areas, languish in others even when they seem to apply the same effort that should equate to producing success. It’s not rocket science...

Matthew Del Negro is a celebrated actor credited for roles in some of TV's most-renowned and award-winning shows such as SOPRANOS, SCANDAL & WEST WING, and films HOT PURSUIT and WIND RIVER. He returns for SEASON 2 of his recurring role as Detective Caysen on the SHOWTIME series "City On A Hill" opposite Kevin Bacon that comes out in early 2021. In this episode with me he referenced talking with Kevin Bacon on set the day before, and I was admittedly honored he chose to spend time with me,...