“Ken does it again! Ken shares valuable insight about how monogamy can be a container that allows ‘heat’ in a relationship. By staying with a person (not running away) the contained heat in rupture can melt into deeper bonding. Rupture and repair are central to the experience of intimacy. It is so easy to forget this!
So, before we run to get emotional or sexual needs met elsewhere, commit to growing with our partner. Then their foreign land can become known to us and we can develop a shared language of understanding. We have to have ‘both feet in.’ That love is re-discoverable (good news) unless there is abuse or addiction. Thanks, Ken, for encouraging me to hang in there when the going gets tough.”
Wholehearted53 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
07/18/22