Every decision that you make in your life, every action that you take...depends on how much you care about your Akhirah.  It shows whether or not you've been thinking about the 'Dar-ul-akhirah' - the final abode. Listen to the episode here A believer's choices come out of their love for the Creator, the yearning to be near Him in the Jannah, and the fear of being placed in Jahanum. Look… The actions you’re taking are leading you somewhere, right?  So, if you’re not finding a desire in your heart to be close to Allah, feel his presence, and ultimately connect with Him… …then where are your actions leading you? Why is it terrifying? What can we do about it?