This week we're addressing two broad questions, first, when one parent wants shared parenting, but the other parent is the primary parent, how to prepare for mediation through Court.  Plus, a listener raises a topic that we believe will be one of the biggest issues in divorce matters over the next 20 years: what to do when your ex's parents loaned you money to buy a house, then you separate, and the former in-laws want the money back. Was it a gift or a loan? With housing prices sky-rocketing in Canada, we believe the issue of inter-generational transfers of large sums of money will become more common as an issue in divorce. We share our thoughts on this critical developing issue.  Find us online at DivorcedAndDone.com and our podcast email [email protected], send voicemails to SpeakPipe.com/DivorcedAndDone We're a TOP 10 podcast as ranked by Feedspot, we recently ranked in the top 10 of the Best 100 Divorce Podcasts. Check it out https://blog.feedspot.com/divorce_podcasts/ We're also on TikTok: @familylaw_darrenschmidt and Instagram: @DivorcedAndDone Don't forget to leave us a review on Spotify, Apple Music, or wherever you get your podcasts. Everything we talk about on this podcast is for your information, but it is not legal opinion or legal advice. Executive Producer/Sound Overlord: Jessica Murphy, https://www.instagram.com/_jessmurphyy/