When divorcing a narcissist, be prepared to take off your rose colored glasses and assume the worst. It's not going to be pretty. Expect to be demeaned, devalued, destroyed, discarded. Expect that there will be plenty of flying monkeys that they will enlist to, um. To weaponize against you. Please realize that you are part of this system gone wrong. If you've been groomed to people, please. If you've been groomed to think that the world is all good, you have some work to do when divorcing a narcissist. Make sure that you stay in power and control of your money, that you keep a strong paper trail and that you lawyer up with the best attorney that you can muster up.