Narcissists like to leave you with their bag of laundry. There's so good at masking up and creating a false positive sense of self that by the time you wake up and leave gone, if you ever do wake up, they will have poisoned everyone around you to think that you're sick and crazy and bad for leaving such a wonderful person because they appear wonderful on the outside and mask their evil and disconnected ways, they make you appear Like you should be ashamed of yourself and guilty for leaving this massively enlightened, generous, kind, intelligent and empathic person, even if you know that not to be true. The image that the public sees is that it is true. So please don't buy into the public view of these people and keep your sanity and have an enlightened witness stand by you so that they can echo the truth of who you are and who they are.