If you think you're in love with a narcissist, it's not a two way street. As a matter of fact, it's a one way ticket to hell. Why? Because they are playing a different game of life than you are. Their idea of love is controlling manipulation. Your idea of love may be in love, may be vulnerability and intimacy. The two don't work together. As a matter of fact, they cancel each other out. If you recognize that you are investing too much into a person who doesn't have your back. If you find that you you're financially, emotionally, spiritually drained by the person, you may be toxically tied to an individual who will suck you dry and vampire the life force out of you. Step number one is seek help so that you no longer have the inclination and the cycle logical blueprint to match with one of these emotional vampires. Step number two is to use your knowledge to choose wisely. Happy Valentine's Day.