Full disclosure: we recorded this episode a few weeks ago when we were at normal rage levels. So take a listen and remember slightly less terrifying times as comedy writer Ely Kreimendahl teaches us about dramatic psycho therapy and so much more! Carolyn and Ely bond over their time at school in Boston where they struggled to feel comfortable around lesbians. Then, we talk about Twitter trolls and trauma and when it's right to delete the tweet. Plus, we learn about Ely's experience with straight people who wrongly assume her and her husband are a cis straight couple. And of course, you don't want to miss our gayest things that span from drag vomit to baby astrology. -Get extra content EACH WEEK, Ad Free episodes, support the pod, and get to know other listeners by joining our Patreon community. If you can't support the pod on a monthly basis, please consider tipping us through Paypal or purchasing 1-on-1s and cameos through Jemi. We truly appreciate it! -We've got MERCH. -For related content, follow us on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram -Help more folks find us and Leave Us a 5-star Review if you like what you hear! -Edited by Lauren Nicole Dougherty -Theme song by There Is No Mountain Sponsors: Quip: GetQuip.com/dykingout to get your first refill free! Helix: Helixsleep.com/dykingout for up to $200 off your purchase BetterHelp: As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting our sponsor at betterhelp.com/do  Ana Luisa Jewelry is offering a special discount for our listeners. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices