20 years ago, a pivotal moment reshaped my entire life's trajectory. It wasn't about success or achievements—it was about the powerful, life-altering question a doctor asked me: “Do you want to walk your daughter down the aisle on her wedding day, Ed?” This episode dives into the heart of that story, Bella's wedding day, a narrative that didn't just save my life but holds the key to the blueprint for harnessing the power of emotional leverage to foster lasting change in any area of your life. I'm sharing this life-changing story and the 4 steps you can take to fuel lasting change including: - Pinpointing the deep-seated reasons that motivate and drive you, which are crucial for enduring change - Establishing powerful, emotional triggers that propel you forward and keep you committed to your goals - Utilizing leverage not just as a tool for success, but as a profound influencer in your personal transformation - Understanding the dynamic between seeking joy and avoiding pain, and how this balance can radically alter your path Each of us has our "Bella’s wedding day" questions—those deep, personal challenges or goals that define our paths. Join me, as we explore how to harness these transformative strategies to craft a future filled with health, happiness, and fulfillment and where our actions and choices align with our deepest values and desires. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices