This episode tackles the question of what should come first, Sex or Romance? Many people have opinions on how chemistry, or sexual attraction, should fit in with compatibility, but is there a real answer to how you should do this? We think so but it also depends on what exactly you are after and it’s going to differ from person to person. Eva leads our discussion to help you figure out what is best for your in your person situation: Chemistry (sexual attraction) or Compatibility (romantic...

Everyone wants to please their partners sexually and knowing how to give good head is a must! Blow jobs, cunnilingus, and rimming (yes rimming!) all have some things you need to learn if you are going to do these well to arouse your partner! Plus many people have questions about what is sanitary or what one may be expected to do when giving head. (“Do you spit or swallow?”) Check out www.ethicalseduction.com to create the sex and relationships you want! References: Article from The...

We review the book called “The Five Flirting Styles: Use the Science of Flirting to Attract the Love You Really Want” by Author Jeffrey Hall. The author has created labels and a framework for better understanding flirting styles, which is bound to help listeners better understand themselves and those they interact with. However the podcasters also question the accuracy and hetronormitized assumptions presented in the book. While the five flirting styles presented are worth learning, so is the...

Those in the sex work business see and learn things about sex, seduction, human nature, and intimacy that many of us outside the adult business are not privy to see. So we asked our friend Ivy Minxxx, who is thriving in the adult industry and does wide variety of “sex work”, to share her thoughts and sexy experience to help us with our own flirting, seduction, relationships, and sex lives. Check out www.ethicalseduction.com to create the sex and relationships you want. Ivy Minxxx...

Everyone has certain needs and so there is definitely a positive and healthy place for getting our needs met. The flip side can be when someone comes along and asks you to give more of yourself than you really want - which doesn’t feel good at all. So where is the balance and how can we get our own needs met without accidentally dumping too much on those around us? In this episode we will discuss neediness, what’s okay and what is not, but we will also take a deep dive into things you do...

We explore some best practices for Masturbation and Self Love. We talk about the health benefits, ways to become more comfortable with masturbating, and we suggest new things for you to try! Set time aside, experiment with touch and sensation, practice new techniques and try one of the toys we suggest. Fantasize, edge, tease, and get yourself off! Masturbation is good for your body, your mind, your health, and it feels great too! Beside listening to the show, you can learn more about...

When is the right time to tell someone that you love them? Some people say it early on and it feels easy for them to say. Others, like Brandie and Steven, hold on to it for dear life because they don’t want to say it until they are really, really, really sure! Also, how do you respond when someone says it to you before you may be ready? Of all the bombs to drop on someone, saying “I love you” can be one of the biggest. Luckily Brandie, Eva, and Kimberly have all the answers. Beside listening...

Not everyone likes walking up and directly approaching someone who they are interested in. Many of us prefer a more subtle and potentially safer “indirect” approach to flirting. One where we don’t come across as potentially pushy, but that feels more natural, comfortable, and flows easily. Indirect flirting methods can be easy to start and let you both find out if this is something you want to pursue further. Beside listening to the show, you can learn more about creating the sex and...

Why do some people act super affectionate at first and then suddenly ghost on us? Why do we develop a crush on someone only to later find it evaporates overnight? Sexual and romantic desire is rather fickle and always changing, but we can learn to go with the flow in a way that both protects ourselves and is kind to others. Learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com #romanticrejectionpsychology #signsofromanticrejection #onesidedcrush...

A listener writes in asking how to navigate situations where someone isn't really into them but likes to flirt nevertheless? Also asking why people behave this way? So we deep dive into flirting mixed signals, how they may be interpreted, what they may mean, and why someone may choose to do this. Plus we cover how to work through this with the other person so the intentions are clear and understood by all. Learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at...

Nurse Jane teaches us a few simple bedroom rope bondage ideas to help heighten your partner's arousal. First she covers a few easy to learn ties and then demonstrates the more complex and creative ways you can bind and position your partner! Nurse Jane has something sexy for all you riggers and rope bunnies alike! Check out www.ethicalseduction.com to learn how to create the experiences you want - in and out of the bedroom! Follow Nurse Jane on Social Media: Fetlife: Nurse_Jane ...

Ever had someone overstep your boundaries and felt the pressure because of it? Ever not taken care of yourself as well as you know you should? Eva gives us suggestions for establishing healthy boundaries to help keep us in the sweet, happy spot of life. Learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com #boundaries #healthyboundaries #selfcare #healthyrelationshipboundaries #healthymarriageboundaries #healthysexualboundries #boundariesandselfcare ---...

There is nothing wrong with being shy, however some people may find they hold themselves back because of it. It often takes a bit of risk to put yourself out there and ask for what you want. Today we offer some suggestions to help make it easier with getting what you want in a relationship, in the bedroom, and in life in general. Learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com References: LifeHack - Ten tips for shy people to meet friends. ...

In BDSM, what exactly is submission or “being submissive” and why do people like this? We explore all the positive, strong, and freeing aspects of submission and why it’s so rewarding for so many people. We dispel the myths about submission implying someone is weak and instead find out what’s going on at a deeper level. Learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com Referenced Links: “9 Different Types of Submission”, article link:...

This episode is intended to give listeners an update on some of the future things we want to focus on, such as potential class ideas in the area of dating, relationships, and sex education. But it's also to let people know that in order to do that we need to change to bi-weekly shows, at least for a little while.  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/ethicalseduction/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/ethicalseduction/support

It can be normal to go through a period of time where your sex life is not where you want it to be. Today we are going to give you ideas for spicing things up, bringing back the sexy, AND for connecting or reconnecting with your partner! Learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com #spicyupsex #sexlessrelationship #sexlessmarriage #revivingsex #resurrectingsex #sextoys #kink #intimacy --- Send in a voice message:...

There are some fun things you can do to arouse your partner, amp things up, and increase the orgasmic sensations! How you touch, when you touch, and fondling both the mind and body can have huge impacts on the intensity of an orgasm. Learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com #increasefemaleorgasm #orgasm #orgasmstrength #edging #teasedenial #multipleorgasms #sexfantasies #sexroleplay --- Send in a voice message:...

Talking with partners about your fantasies can be super rewarding! They get a new perspective of who you are and that can bring you both closer. But sometimes the other person just doesn't get that fantasy you are into and it’s just not their thing. So then what do you do?! Often, even when your partner is not into something that you find hot, talking about and understanding each other’s perspective helps strengthen the relationship! Plus it gives you the opportunity to possibly figure out a...

In this episode we help you understand how to spank or hit someone, where it’s okay to hit them, what areas to avoid, and what is going to make them want more. We cover everything you need to know to safely warm them up, build the intensity, and get them both squirming and wanting more! Learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com #spanking #bdsmspanking #spankingbdsm #howtospank #impactplay #kink #bdsm --- Send in a voice message:...

Podcast Episode #41 - Sexual Tension - Creating It, Using It, and Enjoying It! We discuss ideas for supercharging your bedroom experiences in ways many people never think of. Once you get this way of thinking, you will always hold your partner's attention sexually! And if someone does this for you, you will be happy, grateful, and wanting more of them! Learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com #erotic #erotictension, #sexualtension #edging...

Just because you or a partner may have an STD or STI does not mean that your sex life is over! In this show we destigmatize the myths and many of the concerns around STDs and STIs, plus we have some tips to help make it easy for you to have your sexual health conversations. Because protecting yourself and your partner is not just responsible, but also sexy and strengthens your attractiveness! #STD #STI #sexualsafety #stdtesting #difficultconversations #thesextalk #dating #flirting...

EP #39 - How to Tell Someone to F**k Off! (And what men should know.) This episode as two parts to it. (1) It’s about women standing up and stating what they want and (2) men learning to avoid placing accidental (or purposeful) pressure on someone. This is a really important episode for understanding better ways to connect with someone or get that date. #flirting #seduction #kink #bdsm #no #difficultconversations --- Send in a voice message:...

Here is what you should know about STDs and STIs to protect both yourself and any partners! Plus tips on how to have “the conversation” with them in a way that’s easy and helps strengthen trust between you. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/ethicalseduction/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/ethicalseduction/support

Say the wrong thing when you try sexting and you could crash and burn! Saying the right thing at the right time takes skill. We cover getting started, how to recover if you mess up, how to amp up the sexual tension, and how to take it to that happy place! Learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com #sexting #rulesofsexting #sextingparagraphs #sextingmessages #flirting #seduction #dating --- Send in a voice message:...

In today’s episode, Eva and Brandie are back and turn up the heat! They share their favorite fantasies, what’s so sexy about them, and which ones they want to make a reality. #turnon #fantasy #fetish #seduction #ethicalseduction #ethicalseductionpodcast #podcast #kink #bdsm --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/ethicalseduction/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/ethicalseduction/support