On this weeks episode I sit down with Elle Chavan, I came across Elle’s page to the self build community on Instagram I have another close-knit group of well-wishers who you can turn to for information or advice on everything you need to know about building your home, but when Elle’s son Ben be overnight became a different baby Elle found out she had no one to turn to.  Countless sleepless nights, missed milestones and incorrect diagnosis lead Elle to believe she was failing as a mother. It wasn’t until one day while feeding Ben she noticed he was having a seizure of some sort and by chance videoed it and with this evidence she went straight to A&E where Ben was diagnosed with west syndrome. A rare form of epilepsy and infants that if not helped by medication cause a serious brain damage. I love Elle's home not before time Instagram page and this is story is to show we never know what’s behind the grid. Elle you are the loveliest soul and have the heart of a lioness, Ben's road is very much still ahead of him and I wish You, Ben and Anil the very best of everything with it  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.