Are you telling yourself what you know you "should" be doing, but..? Are you asking 'why should I, other people get pregnant without making changes'? Perhaps you are wanting some certainty, or are overwhelmed with all the advice about what you should do, and your stress, anxiety and need for certainty is becoming too much. In this episode I discuss how the use of the word should could in itself be negatively affecting your emotional health the it cones to fertility and what you can do.