261: How to Work with (Almost) Anyone with Michael Bungay Stanier
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You can’t always choose the people you work with, but you can choose to pursue having the best possible working relationship with them. Joining us today is return guest Michael Bungay Stanier, author of the new book How to Work With Almost Anyone: Five Questions for Building the Best Possible Relationships, to talk about the importance of working relationships and how to create ones that are safe, vital, and repairable. Listeners may recognize Michael from Episode 210 of Finding Brave, How to Begin Doing Something That Matters, where Michael shares his keen insights on the three key components of a worthy goal and what it means to commit to one. Michael is the author of six books to date, the combined sales of which go well beyond one million copies. He is most known for his best-selling book The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever, and is considered one of the world’s top thought leaders when it comes to coaching. Michael is also the host of 2 Pages with MBS, a fascinating podcast where his exceptional guests read the two most noteworthy pages of a favorite book and share how reading it impacted and shaped them. In today’s conversation, we dig into the complex nature of working relationships, why they are so important, and how to have the best possible relationship with the person across the table from you. Michael shares why he felt compelled to write his latest book before outlining some of the essential questions he poses to readers and how they can improve working relationships today. He also provides a detailed breakdown of how to have a keystone conversation and explains how these can help you maintain and improve relationships by giving one another permission to check in and keep talking about how well (or poorly) you’re working together. Working with people will always be messy and challenging, but when you commit to having the best relationship possible, incredible things can happen. To hear all of Michael’s thought-provoking and very helpful insights on one of the most important aspects of our working lives, be sure to tune in today. You won’t want to miss this one!   Key Highlights From This Episode:  • An introduction to today’s guest: Michael Bungay Stanier. [05:10] • What compelled Michael to write his new book How to Work With Almost Anyone. [08:15] • Michael’s approach to the writing process. [10:27] • Understanding how to build relationships that are safe, vital, and repairable. [16:34] • How to have a keystone conversation and why it’s so valuable. [18:11] • The five questions in How to Work With Almost Anyone and how they help create a shared language between you and the person you’re working with. [23:46] • How to overcome the (inevitable) obstacles in any working relationship. [26:48] • Building the best possible relationship with the person across the table from you. [30:13] • The biggest barrier to giving feedback and how to do so with clarity. [38:36] • How to access Michael’s latest book and great bonus content. [41:53]   For More Information: Michael Bungay Stanier Michael Bungay Stanier on Instagram Michael Bungay Stanier on LinkedIn Michael Bungay Stanier on YouTube Michael Bungay Stanier on Twitter Michael Bungay Stanier on Facebook   Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:  Michael’s bestselling book: The Coaching Habit Michael’s latest book: How to Work With Almost Anyone Michael’s previous appearance on Finding Brave: How to Begin Doing Something That Matters Michael’s podcast: 2 Pages with MBS Michael’s TedTalk: ‘How to Tame your Advice Monster’   Are you ready for a BIG positive shift in how you’re working and what you’re capable of achieving today in your career and leadership? Let’s work together and make that happen! While you might know me best as a podcast host and writer, a key focus in my work is career and leadership coaching for mid- to hig
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