Summary In this episode, the hosts discuss their holiday experiences and delve into the topic of religion and beliefs. They explore the significance of Hanukkah and its traditions, including the lighting of candles and the story behind the holiday. The conversation then shifts to the different practices and rituals in various religions, such as prayer beads and the Catholic rosary. The hosts emphasize the importance of respecting different beliefs and finding spirituality in one's own way. They also touch on the book of Job and its lessons on faith and perseverance. This conversation explores the themes of control, laws, and personal freedom. The hosts discuss the role of control and safety in decision-making, as well as the importance of laws and traditions in providing guidance. The debate on abortion is also examined, with differing perspectives on pro-choice and pro-life. The 12-step perspective on pro-choice is explored, highlighting the value of individual choices and respecting others' decisions. The conversation also touches on breaking stereotypes, prioritizing personal happiness, and the mindset of Gen Z. The importance of continuous learning and taking responsibility for choices is emphasized, along with the value of self-discovery and embracing personal freedom. Takeaways Holidays provide an opportunity to learn about different traditions and beliefs. Respecting and understanding different religions and beliefs is crucial. Spirituality can be found in various practices and rituals. Finding one's own path to spirituality is a personal journey. Control and safety play a role in decision-making. Laws and traditions provide guidance and direction. The debate on abortion involves differing perspectives on pro-choice and pro-life. The 12-step perspective values individual choices and respects others' decisions. Breaking stereotypes and embracing personal happiness are important. Continuous learning and taking responsibility for choices are essential. Self-discovery and personal freedom are valuable aspects of life. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friendsinrecovery/message