When Mischa Byruck went to Burning Man in 2017, for the first time he felt as though “he wanted to be seen, naked, exhibitionistically, sexually.” He couldn’t have imagined just how that would play out…or where his dip into a particular sexy public display would lead.    Topics touched on in his story include rope bondage, a surprising and welcomed orgasm, homoerotic play and more!   You’ll also learn why exhibitionism is often considered part of female sexuality, reasons many people (of...

Big Os that blew our minds! And then some... As shared with August at an event co-hosted by Sex-Positive Los Angeles called Donuts and Orgasm Stories – featuring Erin, Joe, Heidi, Norma, AP, Rachel and Kelsey, plus one of August’s own.   Highlights include:   A brussels sprouts-gasm Before and after menopause climaxes A first orgasm after years of sex-phobia The sexiness of “messiness” and safe exploration Leaning into your intuition for more pleasure What donuts and orgasms have in...

Elizabeth Anne Wood’s mother, Judy, had been enjoying her sexual prime (that started in her 50s) when she was diagnosed with terminal cancer. Elizabeth’s memoir, Bound: A Daughter, a Domme, and an End-Of-Life Story, explores the last eight months of Judy’s life and highlights the importance of sex-positivity.    In this Girl Boner Radio episode, you’ll hear:   A few of Elizabeth’s childhood memories, including the “pecker head story” How Judy began to embrace kink, BDSM and Domme life ...

Sex advice from three awesome sex workers, including the personal experiences behind them! Inspired by a listener email and dedicated to LL’s mom.   Daisy Ducati @daisyducati    NatsHoney @natshoney   Steph Sia @strippedbysia   Check out The Pleasure Chest’s latest specials!    More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio     This episode was produced by August McLaughlin and Makenzie Mizelle @sidneylaneishere  

Edwina started running sex toy parties nearly 30 years ago – and she’s seen a lot of change in the toys and people’s opinions about them. In this week's episode, she shares some of her wildest and most meaningful memories – basically a fun walk down Sex Toy Memory Lane! Plus tips for choosing the right toy for your needs or desires.   You’ll also hear:   Tips for getting started with sex toys A dildo story that put tears in August’s eyes Toy recommendations for clitoris bliss and...

Vulnerability coach Rina Trevi grew up in Russia, with a lot of sexual repression. A journey into sky-diving, sex work, BDSM and Tantric massage in the U.S. and Thailand helped her reclaim her sexual self and inspired her to help others find similar pleasure and healing.   You’ll also learn: How BDSM may help heal trauma (and IRL examples) The role fantasies can play in fetishes and sexual healing How acting on a fantasy helped Rina heal a childhood wound How to safely and intentionally...

Can orgasms make or break a relationship? Learning to make sex pleasurable (for her) helped save Susan Bratton’s marriage and sex life. A toxic relationship led Emmi Fortin to her lengthiest climax, and kept her stuck on a poor-fit partner.    You’ll also learn:   How to experience hot, breakup-level sex without the heartache Clitoris tips for maximum bliss Why Emmi decided to openly write about her intimate experiences How Susan shifted from dissociation to presence during sex Ways to...

Some spicy escapades are wilder than fiction! Have you ever had sex with a stranger, sex in a surprising place or and discovered a kink in public? Romance authors Karina Kennedy, Nana Malone and Sky Warren have, respectively. Hear about their experiences, some related advice and what to expect from their steamy books.    Get a bonus clip with more tips: patreon.com/girlboner   The erotic story, written by Sky Warren, was performed by voice over artist Rosa Delgado:...

https://augustmclaughlin.com/ashleigh-swing/Ashleigh Renard met her husband at 21 and, for years, thought she had an ideal life and marriage. When the pair decided to spice things up through sex parties and the swinging lifestyle, she faced ongoing problems for the first time.    Today, Ashleigh helps other couples keep monogamy hot, no parties or partner swapping required. So in addition to her personal journey, you’ll hear a few smart ways to accomplish just that.   Learn more about...

Emily Gindlesparger was eight years into a relationship when her partner admitted having a crush on someone else. Her responsive tailspin of anxiety, jealousy and self-doubt led to curiosities about her own true desires and gradually stepping into them.    You’ll also learn:   How she and her partner navigated aspects of ethical non-monogamy, such as new relationship energy (NRE)  How embracing her queerness helped her feel more connected to her femininity Takeaways from one of her...

Princessa Natasha Strange grew up on a farm in Oregon in the 70s, with no access to pop culture. Early on, she learned how to respond to schoolyard bullies in ways that foretold her future.   Her turbulent road to becoming a professional Dominatrix and femme-centric BDSM coach has been well worth it. And she has a lot to say about embracing your desires and cultivating confidence.    You’ll also learn:   Common motivations for cross-dressing When Natasha felt she was “selling herself”...

Domina Mara, Professional Dominant and filmmaker, and her pup join August for another round of Sex Questions With…! Learn about Mara’s career, the pair’s Dominant/pup relationship and the group’s answers to steamy questions from listeners and the boardgame, “You Don’t Know My Life.”   Highlights include the “birds and the bees,” a squirting and multiple orgasm experience, extraordinary sex toys, lessons learned the hard way and more!   Explore Miss Mara’s work: DominaMara.com ...

Gwendolyn J. Bean had only dated women when her dating desires shifted. Amber Cantorna grew up in a conservative Christian home then fell in love with her female college roommate.    You’ll hear:   Gwendolyn and Amber’s coming out stories Their contrasting experiences regarding loved ones’ acceptance Advice for managing loneliness around your sexual orientation or desires  Who to come out to and when Rewards of sexuality/self-acceptance you can look forward to    You’ll also learn...

August is joined by friend and colleague, Makenzie Mizell, to discuss times they made sex or dating experiences awkward. You’ll also hear about listeners’ “OMG” dates and Makenzie’s latest (and spicy!) ventures.   Topics touched on include bodily functions, a gay ‘ol pickup line, a myth about female sexuality and male desires and more! You'll also hear about sexy gift ideas, available at The Pleasure Chest.   Learn more about Makenzie’s latest + support their work: ...

Ever felt like you should be sex-ready when you're not? Or self-conscious about performing well in bed? Dr. Alison Ash is no stranger to pressure around sex and helps many folks find their way to more fun and fulfilling experiences. She also recently married her partner, Sebastian, and their love story is one for the books.   You’ll learn:   How the couple met and got engaged How they figured out their non-monogamy/monogamy styles during lockdowns Ways pressure has cropped up in their...

Midway into their first dinner together, EF Dodd’s date pulled out something shocking. Kelly Reynolds got way more than she bargained for on a first date – and less than she deserved for a second.   You’ll also learn about the importance of creating sexy stories, in real life and fiction, and Kelly and EF’s new, spicy books!    Save 40% on the new Crave Vesper (elegant vibrator necklace) and support Girl Boner at the same time here. August will get a small commission if you use that...

Niba went on a creepy date that could have gone far worse. Erik recalls being sexually assaulted by a ghost, and shares info about spectrophilia: sexual encounters with ghosts. Back by popular demand, in honor of Halloween! This episode mentions sexual assault and trauma. Please take care of yourself, first and foremost. Sponsor specials:   Explore Kinktober goodies at The Pleasure Chest: thepleasurechest.com    Athletic Greens is offering you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting...

Ask Girl Boner! It’s been a while since August fielded your sex questions, so she asked Ashley Cobb, sex-pert, writer and “your favorite friend in filth,” to help her answer a few of your steamiest.   You’ll learn about:   Toy alternatives when vibrators feel too intense Toys for clitoris and G-spot play Why some people enjoy being choked during sex Tips for a safe choking experience  Ashley’s “try it once” experience with choking What to do if you aren’t comfortable with a partner’s...

When Tia Lynn found herself judging her dance instructor’s sexy moves, she knew she wanted to dig deeper. Investigating her beliefs helped her recognize the sexual expression she truly desired.    In this episode, you’ll learn:   What Tia learned about sex while growing up in Utah The basics of shadow work  What it was like for her to explore threesomes, sex parties and non-monogamy Different variations of ethical non-monogamy Tips for boosting your sexual confidence What Tia loves...

Jade Chang Sheppard was nearing 40 when she started wondering if she was living life to the fullest, including sexually. Was monogamy really her best option? Was she actually bi? Or kinky? What was group sex like?    Rather than seeing the exploration and life changes that followed as a crisis or breakdown, she’s embraced it all as a revolution.   You’ll also learn:   Ways ideas about female sexuality vs male sexuality can get in the way of exploring your kinks or fantasies (and what to...

John Kim and Vanessa Bennett are therapists and coauthors of, It's Not Me, It's You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better. They’re also a couple, who met at a time when neither was anticipating life changing love.  Learn how they came together, what made the start of their relationship rocky, how they navigate sexual desire and flirting differences and what they want us all to know about relationships. Instagram: @theangrytherapist @vanessasbennett     Sponsor offers:   Check...

To celebrate With Pleasure’s release anniversary, August shares her behind-the-scenes conversation with coauthor Jamila M. Dawson, LMFT from last year. You’ll also hear pleasure practices of people featured in the book in their own voices - from solo play and feeling present during sex to relaxing ways to ease into intimate time. Keep listening after the episode for a special bonus from the archive! Learn more about the interviewees’ work: Jamila on Instagram: @jamila.thesextherapist ...

Lynn Sally was always a bit of a wild child, but she also went to a Catholic high school where sex education was virtually MIA. Today she’s an author, scholar and burlesque performer, known as Dr. Lucky. Learn about her journey into the artform that celebrates and explores female sexuality, examines gender roles and more – plus empowering ways to benefit from stripping in your own life.   Neo-Burlesque: Striptease as Transformation by Lynn Sally   Check out the latest specials at The...

Tika Thorton grew up in S. Los Angeles, where she was swept into a world of sex trafficking and manipulation. Today she’s an advocate who helps fellow survivors and fights to end the human trafficking crisis. Hear Tika’s story, as well as insights for a listener who wanted to support his girlfriend as she manages her own sexual trauma.   Tika’s TEDx Talk   Human trafficking resource guide   Domestic Violence Support + hotline: 800.799.SAFE (7233)   The interview featured in this...

Eleanor grew up learning that sexual pleasure is intended only for marriage. Now in her late 40s and peri-menopausal, she’s experienced surprising changes in her sexual desires. Meanwhile, she’s making way for body confidence and empowerment for her daughters – with hopes that they won’t experience the shame or related difficulties she did earlier on.   Explore the latest Pleasure Chest specials: thepleasurechest.com   Athletic Greens is offering you a FREE 1 year supply of...