In this Part 1 of their story, Nicky and Matt share their experience receiving a devastating diagnosis during the second trimester of their pregnancy. Their much-desired daughter, Lucy, has Trisomy-9, a chromosomal disorder that is often incompatible with life. Language barriers, Nicky’s rare blood type, and many other factors complicate their journey. We are so thankful to Nicky and Matt for sharing their story with our listeners. While their story has a positive ending, in the interview we discuss the topics of miscarriage, the rhogram shot, abortion, and amniocentesis, as these are real issues and considerations they had to face along the way. If you find any of these topics emotionally triggering, we encourage you to put a pause on the episode and come back at another time. In addition, you may consider reaching out to a licensed counselor. Listen to Part 1 of their story this week, then come back next week for Part 2! Featuring an induction, working with a doula and IBCLC, their breastfeeding/pumping journey, and an update on how their beautiful daughter Lucy is today! *** Looking for trisomy support? https://trisomy.org https://rarechromo.org/ *** Visit the Having a Baby in China Website: https://www.havingababyinchina.com/ Follow @HavingABabyInChina on Instagram  Check out Having a Baby in China: The Course - A Video Course to learn about it all! ***Enjoying the Having A Baby In China Podcast? Leave us a rating or write a review in your favorite podcast app, share us with your friends, or contact us on Instagram!***