Ever wonder if it's you or them? In this solo episode, Leanna and Jared discuss their current romantic endeavors, including a blind date, a lot of swiping and casual mingling. Jared shares his obsession with a new reality show, as well as some discouragement in his career and his dive back into the dating world. Leanna talks about an empowering solo adventure, followed by a baffling interaction at a local dive bar, which then leads to a conversation about the unfortunate reality of women having to master the art of assertiveness in uncomfortable situations. She also gives an update on her situationship and a realization of her falling back into a familiar pattern of anxious attachment and fear of abandonment.    Follow us on Instagram @helloandgoodbyepodcast, @_leannajoan and @therealjaredrodrigues   Thank you to our sponsor BetterHelp, a company that offers affordable and customized online therapy. To receive 10% off your first month of therapy, head to betterhelp.com/hellogoodbye   MERCH: www.helloandgoodbyepodcast.com/shop   Subscribe to our YouTube channel: Hello & Goodbye Podcast   Become a Patreonie: www.patreon.com/helloandgoodbyepodcast   Podcast and music produced by: [email protected]