In this episode, we talk to retired EODCS and LEO Chris Rudiger and his wife Tina about the unique challenges and stress that military and first responder couples face. Chris and Tina share their remarkable turnaround story of how they went from bitter and almost divorced to thriving, certified marriage coaches.  Key Takeaways:  How military couples face their own "Fog of War." The potential for bitterness when first responders serve their nation/community but not their spouse.  How Chris and Tina developed a mission for their marriage and "locker room time" together. How to work smarter, not harder on your marriage.  Now more than ever, military and first responder couples need stories of hope during this stressful time. Please pass this episode along!  Learn more about Chris and Tina here:  https://rudys4walls.com/ https://www.facebook.com/rudys4walls.org --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/melissa-miller60/support