This week the internet is aflurry with cheating scandals and we are talking to the fantastic Lexy Panterra about her latest single 'Girls,' which is about just that. We talk getting cheated on, double standards between genders when cheating is involved, and how to take back your power after a betrayal. We're also talking music; why Lexy releases hers on OnlyFans, what genres we like to bang to, and the best beats for thrusting. Remy tries a viral song that the internet swears is a horrible...

Today's guest is Nicole Aniston, who after 12-13 years in the adult industry became a trailblazer with her project Closer to Nicole which aims to sell NFTs as access tokens to allow people to watch her ethically produced adult content, and be a part of her discord community.  We discuss how she took an antiquated business model and completely revamped it, and the many reasons why NFTs are better than OnlyFans, for creator and consumer. We also talk the similarities between the fight for...

We're talking top surgery, breast reduction, and SO much more with two second time cummers: award winning comedian Robby Hoffman and Girls Gotta Eat co-host + Vibes Only co-owner Rayna Greenberg! We hear about the differences and similarities of Rayna's breast reduction and Robby's top surgery; how long they've wanted their respective surgeries (and why), what healing was like, scars, cost, and post-surgery sex. We talk nipple sensitivity, the first big boobs Robby has ever played with, and...

This week we witnessed the loss of reproductive rights for millions of people in the US with the overturning of Roe v. Wade. We still maintain our rights to speak out and our right to education which is why we are elated to be joined by inclusive youth sex educator Mariah Caudillo (@SexEdFiles) to discuss good sex education and how to teach consent, body autonomy, media literacy, and sexual health to children/teens of various ages. We hear about Mariah's experience as a teacher, the most...

TW: Childhood SA Stand up comic and musical comedian Maggie Lalley joins Remy to talk about her solo show 'Sex Witch The Musical' which has been featured in the Edinburgh Fringe Festival and New York Comedy Festival.  We discuss the childhood assault that happened to Maggie which the musical is based off of, what assault between two childreen can look like, as well as how she healed and turned trauma into art.    Follow Maggie @MagsLals Follow us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir,    ...

Why do people feel the need to comment on "unhealthy bodies" when they don't comment on health elsewhere? This week we are joined by award-winning yoga instructor, entrepreneur, and author Jessamyn Stanley talking body diversity in yoga, overcoming imposter syndrome, and the journey to self-acceptance. Jessamyn also tells about growing up in the Bahá’í faith, what coming out to her family was like, and why she transitioned from being a religious person to being a spiritual one. Follow...

We're talking penis problems and how to solve them with Dr. Justin Houman, a urologist and fellowship-trained Male Reproductive Medicine and Surgery specialist in Beverly Hills. Dr. Houman's practice is focused on male hormone management, sexual and ejaculatory dysfunction, male fertility, vasectomies, male incontinence, and Peyronie’s disease. As a minimally-invasive microscopic surgeon, he specializes in microsurgical varicocelectomies, vasectomy reversals, sperm retrievals, penile...

Remy and Robyn welcome "Molly," a cumpanion who is coming to this weekend's DC show and who can now come -- because of this podcast!! She tells us about doing the assignments, failing, the episodes that inspired her, and the thing (or person) that eventually got her there! She also suggests an OMAZING book called The Adventure Challenge: For Couples.  We also chat briefly with Remy's "second mom" Lucy about why she thinks having pimples means you are in love and why Robyn should come back to...

Hilarious comedian Katie Hannigan joins us to talk about her birth control journey; the side effects that she has endured on different modes of BC (including losing her libido and losing her mind), and what she is on now. We talk about how her body healed, getting her libido back, and how horny Bridgerton makes us. Seasons 1 + 2 SPOILERS ahead, in case you haven't finished yet.  Follow us @HowCumPodcast Remy- @RemyKassimir  Katie- @KatieHanniganForever DC/ VIRGINIA Cum see Remy live!...

This week the internet was ablaze with the scandal that took place at this year's Academy Awards this past Sunday and the jokes made in its aftermath.  How To Live With the Internet and Not Let It Ruin Your Life author Gabrielle Alexa Noel guides us through as we discuss jokes, nuance, and why picking a side has felt so imperative recently. Gabrielle gives us a behind the scenes account of her guest appearance on the Red Table Talk , what it was like discussing polyamory with Will, Jada, +...

We're talking FEET and sex on this long awaited episode with certified sex educator and award-winning author Gigi Engle and comedian and actor Corey Rodrigues. Corey tells us about his relationship with feet; what he likes about them, how old he was when he realized he had a foot fetish, his red flags when it comes to dating and whether he would want to be with someone who had a foot fetish of their own! We also dive into the differences between fetish and kink and how what is viewed as...

This week we are joined by Rachel Wolfson, the first female cast member of the Jackass movies and the only female cast member in the new movie, Jackass Forever. We are discussing how she felt getting DMd by Johnny Knoxville, being the only female cast member, life on set and how Covid impacted filming, along with the pranks/stunts she participated in. Follow us @RemyKassimir and follow Rachel @rachelwolfson DC/ VIRGINIA Cum see Remy live! 4/22-4/23   Sign up for our...

Our first guest EVER comedian Wendi Starling is back for a series of cumgratulations and we couldn't be more proud. Hear how she went from infamously stating that "love was not in the cards" for her in episode 1 to now in love, living her boyfriend, and expecting a baby! We discuss when and why she quit sex work (OnlyFans and working as a sugar baby), how she met her boyfriend, and the romantic way they first said, "I love you." Follow us @RemyKassimir @wendi.starling DC/ VIRGINIA Cum see...

(For now!) Robyn's US visit has cum to an end and she is off to the UK. She and Remy recap the highs and lows of the 6-week trip and we learn about who Robyn Kennedy was before the podcast -- or, pre-cum, if you will. We also talk Euphoria,  Ukraine, Remy + Robyn's plan to "Pluck Putin,"  the suppression of teaching CRT in 36 states, voting rights, the anti-trans mandates in Texas, and the "don't say gay" ban in Florida.    Charities mentioned in this episode: Save the Children (Ukraine...

This episode is full of woo-woo, magic, meant to be moments, and rejuvenation. Remy and Robyn chat with our new friends Nicoletta Heidegger + Lisa Reider and our old pal Ashley Manta (The Cannasexual) about the Ranch Reboot Retreat that Nicoletta threw in LA in January that we got to attend! As a Licensed Therapist and Sexologist who utilizes Equine Therapy, Nicoletta put together a restorative and enlightening day filled with yoga, breathwork, erotic wellness, goal setting, animal assisted...

This episode is all about New York City sex and scandal. First, Remy and Robyn discuss what was wrong with the finale of And Just Like That and what WE would have done as the writers of this season of the Sex and The City reboot. Then we are joined by NYC natives and Remy's childhood friends Hype writer, Fyre Producer, and author of the recent "What Danielle Miller Learned at Horace Mann and Rikers" for NY Mag, Gabrielle Bluestone as well as senior writer at Rolling Stone (covering internet...

We're back! Season 5 kicks off with Remy and Robyn together in the USA for the first time. They recount the last few weeks and are joined by Henika Patel, founder of the School of Sensual Arts to talk Tantra. Henika combines ancient Indian wisdom of tantra and yoga with western psychology and living to turn body numbness and shame into orgasmic abundance and celebration! We're discussing tantra as a path to healing shame, embracing your body, and creating space to C*M. Henika shares how she...

Robyn has landed in LA and she and Remy are back for a special bonus episode to celebrate A BUNCH OF STUFF: Our first time meeting in-person after working together for 2 YEARS, How C*m being back on the Top Comedy charts because of a Tik Tok (!!) and our upc*mming live shows in LA + NYC!!  We're discussing all the precautions we are taking to make these shows safe and fun AF for you, and c*mfortable enough for us to do them, the promises Remy made to Robyn's mom before she left NZ, and how...

Spoiler Alert: Sex And The City, And Just Like That For our final episode of season 4 and 2021 we are joined by two comedians and television aficionados Paris Campbell and Ashley Ray to discuss all things ‘And Just Like That.' We talk about what we loved and hated about the original Sex and The City, the psychology behind why we 'hate watch' things, and HOW did we ever idolize Carrie Bradshaw? We unpack the difficulty of originally having to fit into a Carrie, Miranda, Samantha, or...

Therapist, writer and mental wellness consultant Dr. Natalie Jones is here to talk TOXICITY! We discuss what it means to be toxic, what fear based dating is and why we do it, why we overlook red-flags in romantic relationships and friendships, what defines unhealthy behaviors in relationships, narcissistic traits to look for in others and ourselves, and how to overcome all of it.  THEN Robyn shares her most recent PURELY MENTAL full body c*mgrats and we are SO PROUD!!  TW: Abuse,...

Sarrah Rose, founder of Tantric Activation joins us to discuss how to do Tantric Sex solo and partnered. We discuss why she got into tantric sex after giving birth to her daughter, how she used it to feel more energized and to facilitate many big awakenings in her life. Sarrah shares about how using breath, sound, movement, and focus together can change the way you have s*x. Finally we discuss bringing meditation into sex, the difference between tantric and non-tantric orgasms, along with how...

Today's guest is Nicole Victoria, financial expert, money coach, and CEO of the international financial literacy company No Budget Babe. We're talking the importance of being financially independent and all the ways to get there, including getting rid of debt, paying off student loans and investing in both property and stocks. Nicole shares how she went from $40,000 in debt to a millionaire, why she believes budgets are like diet pills and why "The Makin Money Moves Method" (her 3-month...

Psychologist, Certified Sex Therapist, and author of 'ADHD After Dark: Better Sex Life, Better Relationship' Dr Ari Tuckman joins us as we explore the connection between ADHD and relationships. We talk about how late in life diagnosis' can affect your relationships, finally realizing you aren't "crazy, stupid, or lazy", and the importance of understanding your or your partners ADHD. We're discussing the ways that ADHD can impact relationships where only one partner is diagnosed, and Dr...

Spoiler Alert: ‘You’ Season 3 We're talking OPEN RELATIONSHIPS with creator of the IG account @queersextherapy & CEO of The Expansive Group, AASECT certified sex therapist Casey Tanner and comedian Khalid Rahmaan.   Casey guides us through the different types of non-monogamous relationships, how to ask for one, how to tailor them to better suit your current relationship, and things to consider before opening up and how therapy can help you and your partner create a good foundation....

We decided to do this episode following Texas legislature enacting their stringent abortion law (SB8) and it is more necessary than ever now, with more than 100 abortion restrictions enacted just this year. We hear from six incredible C*mpanions from all over the US (and one in Peru) who share unique stories of abortion; either their own, a parent's, or a friend who they helped.  Thank you to Kelsea, Hayley, Noelle, Ilana, Kaylee & Giulia Follow us at @HowCumPodcast and @RemyKassimir  ...