Special guest: Phyllis Fagell The tween years are turbulent times for many. Research tells us that those kids who thrive have strong connections, show resilience, ask for help when it’s needed and set realistic and challenging goals for themselves. How do we, as parents and educators help them to thrive? Do we need to coddle, bulldoze and pave the way? No. Tweens are more capable than you think. In fact, my next guest writes, in her new book, Middle School Superpowers, tells us that “middle schoolers and superheroes have a lot in common.” We learn that while both these groups get catapulted into an unknown and tumultuous world, they also can develop superpowers that allow them to navigate this jarring journey if we are both there for them and give them room to soar. Phyllis Fagell, back on the show for a second time, is a licensed clinical professional counselor, a certified professional school counselor, a frequent contributor to The Washington Post and other national publications, and author of Middle School Matters. She is a school counselor at Sheridan School in Washington, D.C. and provides therapy to children, teens, and families at The Chrysalis Group Inc. in Bethesda, Maryland. Phyllis also speaks and consults on issues relating to parenting, counseling, and education. Her new book, Middle School Superpowers is the topic of today’s podcast!