Episodes
Elizabeth Heineman talks about Germany's equivalent of Hugh Hefner – Beate Uhse. This conversation came from me being asked to give my thoughts about Hefner after he died and I wound up learning about Beate, the woman Luftwaffe pilot who built Europe's largest sex shop empire and embodied Germany's post-war economic miracle. This is a fascinating story. Take a listen.
Published 11/18/17
Naama Bloom is the founder of HelloFlo.com, a modern day health site for girls and women. Her mission for HelloFlo was to create a space where women and girls could learn about their bodies in an open and honest environment without any shame and with a healthy dose of humor. HelloFlo's first two videos, " The Camp Gyno" and "First Moon Party," have been viewed over 50 million times and show girls that while puberty can be awkward at times, it can also be fun and empowering.
Published 11/05/17
My guest this week is Bryan, who I met at the SexExpo back in September. Bryan and I talk about his new app, BIEM which provides the easiest way to talk with a healthcare professional, get tested, share results, and be notified if a person you've been with tests positive for an STD in the future. We also discuss PrEP; “stealthing”; being sexually irrational; and consent. biemteam.com whatisprep.org
Published 10/25/17
My guest is Marla Renee Stewart. She founded Velvet Lips, which is an education company that empowers people of all ages to embrace, educate, and enjoy their sexuality and their sexual lives. We talk about her coming out to her mother at 16 as a bisexual; masturbation; orgasms; the swinging community; threesomes; Unicorns and how to find them; safe words; spanking; strap ons for men; and sexual innovation. You can find her on marlareneestewart.com Twitter: @1marlastewart [email protected]
Published 10/01/17
This podcast contains three conversations about The Nashville Statement: A Coalition for Biblical Sexuality which you can find at the link below. https://cbmw.org/nashville-statement/ You can find the link to the response from Christians United at the link below. http://www.christiansunitedstatement.org/ Please let me know what you think about this format and what you think about the topic. Thank you.
Published 09/22/17
My guest, Cooper S. Beckett is an author, a podcaster, and so much more. He spent much of his life afraid of sex, sexuality, his bisexuality, his true interests, and global thermonuclear war. In this conversation we talk not just about his new novel, Approaching The Swingularity: Tales of Swinging & Polyamory in Paradise, but also his personal experiences as a host on these weeklong getaways with his guests. “Welcome home…” Those words and a glass of sparkling champagne welcome you to...
Published 06/28/17
I met Anne Hodder through Elle Chase, who was on the podcast last year. Anne Hodder, ACS, is a multi-certified sex educator endorsed by the renowned San Francisco Sex Information program and the American College of Sexologists International. She is the sex ed teacher you wish you'd had in high school.   We talk about how she taught herself about sex; household items as sex toys; her sex-positive PR firm; her sex workshops; men and emotions; and “69.” https://annehodder.com/ ...
Published 06/19/17
My guest, Silas Bliss is an artist, a writer of erotica, and a lover of bourbon. Silas and I talk about his art and writing; how he chose his name; sex at a very early age; meeting his wife in a religious cult; and his ultimate fantasy. There is also a giveaway at the end of this podcast. So stick around until the end. You can find his art here @SilasBliss or at facebook.com/getintobliss Enjoy!
Published 04/10/17
A quick discussion about "Steak and BJ Day" and how that holiday led me to a charity I had never heard of before called CoppaFeel!   Once I found this website, I thought it was important to share what this charity is doing - especially for young women. coppafeel.org facebook.com/coppafeel.org @CoppaFeelPeople @KrisPoB officialsteakandblowjobday.com
Published 03/15/17
Kristin Russo is my guest for the third time. We talk about her two new projects – “Getting in Bed with Kristin” which is a weekly themed interview show and her new podcast with her wife, Jenny Owen Youngs, called “Buffering the Vampire Slayer” where they not only discuss every episode of “Buffy, the Vampire Slayer,” but they also write a song that recaps each episode. We also veer into politics a little including her experience in the Women’s March in Los Angeles. a-camp.org ...
Published 03/07/17
Happy Valentine's Day everybody.   Just a few thoughts and a little history about the holiday. Whether you're in or out of a relationship, be nice to yourself and don't put too much pressure on yourself just because you think it needs to be a perfect day. It does not. Love yourself.
Published 02/14/17
My guest is Reggie. It's not that her parents didn't talk to her about sex, it's that she just wasn't that interested in hearing about it. When her teacher asked her what she wanted to be when she grew up, she answered, "A virgin." She says that it wasn't until she turned 34 that things really started to change for her sexually. I edited two long, separate conversations into one and we cover quite a bit.
Published 01/30/17
Happy New Year! (and Merry Christmas, Happy Thanksgiving, Happy Halloween and every other holiday I have missed over the last four months!) On this episode it's just me talking about my friend's experience with inappropriate touching by the TSA at a NY airport. This year we may focus a little more on our sexual rights, human rights, female rights and other things that might be more political in the past. I hope you will not only continue listening, but also become more of a voice on this...
Published 01/23/17
My guest, Galen Fous and I discuss the 5 Keys to Being Sexually Authentic as well as Sexual Authenticity Disorder, which is the fear of revealing or having others discover your deepest sexual desires. Galen has been “out” publicly in the Sex-Positive, Fetish and Sacred Sexuality communities since 1998. He has a Master’s degree in Transpersonal Psychology with an emphasis on the study of Fetish, Kink and D/s-BDSM. There is a lot to talk about! Enjoy!
Published 09/14/16
Ryan “Wry” Mantione is kind of the perfect guest for this podcast. He believes in being well-informed regarding options and alternatives to a hetero-normative, traditional love life, as well as maintaining dialogue with partners. He is hosting a workshop on Saturday, Sept 10 at 4pm in Brooklyn with Janet Hardy, co-author of The Ethical Slut as well as other guests. Go to Eventbrite.com to find the link to buy tickets for $35-$50. It will take place at the Hacienda Villa in Bushwick,...
Published 09/05/16
Jet-Setting Jasmine is my guest this week. She's a certified SexPert and the fourth woman of the six Sisters of Sexuality that I have had on the podcast. We discuss her Catholic and conservative upbringing and how at the age of 25 or 30, she changed her mind about labeling the stuff that she does now as being bad or nasty. We also talk about how she communicates with her daughters about what she does in the adult industry. We talk about her SexEd Workshops and highlighting the more...
Published 08/24/16
My guest is Jenny Block, the author of “Open”, “O Wow – Discovering Your Ultimate Orgasm” and “The Ultimate Guide to Solo Sex.” We talk masturbation, Kleenex, the clitoris, faking orgasm, a study on homophobia, politics, sports, and her article, “Why the LGBTQ Community is a Waste of Your Time.”
Published 08/15/16
Zoey Trope remembers having sexual fantasies at the age of 7 or 8 and has been exploring her sexuality on some level ever since. She is in an open marriage with one man while exploring her kinky/submissive side with another man who is her Dom. We talk all about her experience with a couple of Doms and how she found her husband through an ad on Craigslist. You can find her on twitter @zoeylikesit and her blog at xoxofufu.com.   I hope you enjoy the conversation. I know I did.
Published 08/03/16
Shannon Boodram is a clinical sexologist and author of LAID and a Sex/Love expert to millennials, using her own very popular YouTube channel, Shan BOODY that talks about sex, love, and relationships. I ask a lot of questions about her videos and her guests and at the end we take a Cosmo sex quiz, which is a first for this podcast! I also added my own postscript about my receiving a dick pic for the very first time the night before I uploaded this conversation.
Published 07/28/16
Charlie Glickman is my guest. We discuss how he started his sexual education to becoming a sex & relationship coach, a sexuality educator and a sexological bodyworker as well as bring co-author of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners. We talk about how to approach prostate pleasure; somatic sex therapy, which includes sexological bodywork; the 3 minute game that helps with sexual communication; and how to get freaky without being creepy.
Published 07/18/16
Hudsy Hawn is an internationally well-known Lifestyle Educator, an entertainer, an author and a former Miss Teen Talent Alaska. She got into the Lifestyle about 11 years ago and it changed her life. We discuss working in a dungeon and at The Stockroom in California; different kinds of kinks; masturbating to James Spader; polyamory; knowing the difference between Slaves, Switches and Dommes; consent; dog play; and being safe, sane, and consensual. You will love her!
Published 07/07/16
My guest this week is a return guest from 3 ½ years ago. Sapphire and I met when I hosted an hour of radio for Playboy Radio. We travel all over the place, talking about changes in her life both personally and professionally. We touch on how men need to step up when dating; bisexuality; Hitler dicks, angry dicks and limp dicks; public sex; Symphorophilia; sensory depravation; fantasies; threesomes; and the Sex Terminator. Enjoy!
Published 06/29/16
Sexpert Tyomi is my guest this week. She’s been posting videos on sex positions and other topics on YouTube.com for the last 5 years. More recently she has been blogging about various sexual topics like PE, masturbating, finding the right vibrator and her own experience with fetish training. Enjoy!
Published 06/22/16
Parish and I talk about masturbation, manifesting, Jehovah’s Witness, marriage at 19, inviting demons into your life through blow jobs and anal, spirituality, releasing judgment, pregnant threesomes, the pocket rocket, the law of attraction, psychoneuroimmunology, a near-death experience, naming body parts, and sexy Saturdays.
Published 06/06/16
Woody Allen once said, "Don't knock masturbation, it's sex with someone I love." But even if you're satisfied with your solo play, wouldn't it be nice to have new and exciting techniques to try? What if you wanted to try new things, vary it a bit or even do it with a partner? Where do you start? How do you approach it? What toys can I get to enhance my experience? Elle Chase is a sex educator who has many sexual workshops that she presents. I asked her to come onto the podcast to talk...
Published 06/01/16