“Why didn’t she just leave?” This is a question usually proposed by the uninformed. Individuals unaware of just how difficult and dangerous it is for victims of domestic violence to get out of their toxic relationship. It’s never that simple and everyone’s situation is different. A young school teacher by the name of Amber Guichelaar was one of these women. She wanted to get out and almost did. A tragedy that was first reported as an accident, would turn out to be much more than that. When detectives found letters Amber had left behind, they would finally reveal the truth of what really happened.  Written by Michael Dunphy Jr., Executive Produced by Michael Ojibway.  Special Thanks to Jessica Yergin, Sandy Machado, & The Misery Machine Podcast.   Support Our Sponsors:  Squarespace: Go to squarespace.com/choir for a free trial, and when you’re ready to launch, use offer code “CHOIR” to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain!  Best Fiends: Download Best Fiends on the Apple App store or Google Play!  Hello Fresh: Sign up for America’s #1 Meal Kit at www.hellofresh.com/invisible16 and enter code “invisible16” for up to 16 free meals across 7 boxes and 3 free gifts!  Simplisafe: Go to www.simplisafe.com/choir to claim a free indoor security camera plus 20% off with Interactive Monitoring!  Upside: Download the FREE Upside App and use promo code “invisible” to get $5 or more cash back on your first purchase of $10 or more!    Visit Invisible Choir on the web:  Patreon - Invisible Choir Premium:  https://www.patreon.com/InvisibleChoir  Website:  https://www.invisiblechoir.com/  Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/InvisibleChoirPodcast/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/invisiblechoir/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/InvisibleChoir   Written/Audio Sources:    Why I am a teacher by Amber Guichelaar 'Am I safe sleeping next to him?': Murder victim's words expose husband | WOODTV.com Amber Guichelaar Obituary (1987 - 2020) - Grand Rapids, MI State of Michigan vs. Richard Guichelaar Kentwood man pleads in strangulation death of pregnant wife - mlive.com 'Beyond comprehension,' judge says in sentencing Kentwood man who killed pregnant wife - mlive.com Pregnant Michigan Teacher Strangled To Death By Her Husband, Authorities Say George Guichelaar: LinkedIn George Guichelaar: Forced to Choose R. Guichelaar Facebook Video Fantasy Football Talk v.1 R. Guichelaar Facebook Video Fantasy Football Talk v.2 Richard Guichelaar's 911 call: 'My wife isn't breathing' Kentwood man faces murder charge in pregnant wife’s death Suspect charged in death of Kentwood teacher Richard Guichelaar Husband gets 33 years in prison for wife's murder | NewsNation Prime ‘Am I safe sleeping next to him?’: Murder victim’s words expose husband Man breaks down at sentencing hearing for killing his pregnant wife Kentwood man pleads to killing pregnant wife Experts discuss warning signs of domestic violence Music & Sound Effect Sources Opening Track: Chakra Balancing - Manos Apostolopoulos  Closing Track: Feeling Empty - DS Productions  Music & Sound Effect Sources All music and sound effects used with express permission under unlimited blanket license authority from Epidemic Sound ® and SoundStripe ®.  Individual sources are available via request at [email protected] See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.