It's easy to talk about the surface of dating: the restaurants, nights out, and gifts. But Matchmaker Barbie Adler advises looking deeper at how a relationship FEELS. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Matchmaker Barbie Adler is back to help decode your dating insecurities. PLUS: Avoid silent contracts and rushing to relationship status--before you know what you really want. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This summer I came out of a lowkey depression and stepped into my Adventure Era. It's been messy, honest, and happy. PLUS: Don't give the busboy your number. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.