Recorded: Feb 5, 2023 / Published: June 10, 2023 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode Mayfair and I are addressing a listener question about what to do when you catch the feels for a play partner.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Catching the Feels for a Playpartner-S04E51”Anonymous writes:Hello Kuldrin!First, let me say that your podcast is a treasure trove! I just recently entered the BDSM community, and your podcast has been an amazing help!Question: Have you done an episode on catching the feels for play partners? I am in a monogamous marriage but we just started playing with others. I have kind of become infatuated with my first and so far only "extramarital" play partner. Lucky for me he lives 3 hours away and all signs point to the feelings not being mutual.We plan on seeing him again and probably playing with them.I don't like how easily I developed the feels for him. First time I've had this experience in over 20 years and I'm not sure how to process it. We barely spent any time with them, so it isn't any deeper than sexual attraction, I think.So long story short, do you have an episode that addresses this?Thanks! My response: Important Links: Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/451 National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255 NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers: Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift: Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC 257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168 Alcoa, TN 37701 - Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92 - Executive Producer ($25/month) Master Gabriel, ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81 - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Saviy, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, and DarkDiamond - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Frozen Moron, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist,...