A listener is wondering if she should snoop on her boyfriend's phone after spotting that he's suddenly downloaded Snapchat and Instagram after 2 years. Julie offers some tips from her own experience while Brenda suggests playing it cool. The girls also hear from a listener left in a sticky situation after spotting two of her third cousins shifting on the dancefloor of a local pub and wonders if she should tell the rest of the family about what's going on. Send your dilemmas to [email protected]!