Brenda has been feeling very uncomfortable during a trip to the cinema, while Julie has been wondering why she isn’t her best friend’s best friend on snapchat. There's chat about burglaries, robberies and haphazard home defences – and your messages bring us a lot of intriguing stories about home security, from a well-hung coat to charging at the intruder in your underwear. Brenda is telling Julie she needs to try a bit of originality with her dog naming, and Julie is happy to admit that she’d take a man who can hang a shelf above pretty much all else in life.